so all is well and good...i go to holy hour last night, jason and bruce and frank go somewheres...after social night is over I text bruce and say "where are ya" and he says that the boys took a trip to the mall...so I say oh what did ya get and he says a shirt....ok cool lets meet up/hang out yadda yadda right? Ok so they needed to come to the
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Gabe with all his comments and jokes about sex... at first, I was kind of... oh I dunno... horrified? But then one time he asked me the "when was the last time you got laid?" jokey question to break the silence, and I didn't answer except for with a nervous laugh because I can't lie to him about anything and the "it's none of your business" answer didn't feel right. That got him curious, and then he really wanted to know. I said never, and he was shocked. Then he got a serious tone of voice and he said, "But haven't you ever been so in love with Sinclair that you just wanted to give yourself to him?" THAT was when his true opinion on sex came out. See? All of his sex jokes in the world melted away and in that ONE sentence he let his guard down and I saw the truth. So I can overlook all his sex jokes. I can even laugh at them, and start to see what a dorky doofus he's being and laugh along with him because it actually is kind of funny when I get over the way I've been raised. He's just being a guy.
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and considering I think Bruce is still a virgin...(almost 95% sure because according to sources around Halloween he was, and then probably around November/December is when we started spending a lot of time together, and started dating in January)...that makes sense that he has a very boy-ish sense of joking about sex and that he's not really sure maybe how to express his true feelings about it properly cause he's probably never had to!
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