Okay, so!

[kevaskous]

so you all think i'm just emo and full of drama (Most of which is brought to me not created by me) Simply because I post it in my LJ where ym freinds are supposed to wanna read it? Allright, fine, I can completely deal with that as for now on I just won't post a damn thing, not even the very few good things that happen to me from time to time. good

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[acrothdragon]

I've been reading your journal Keva, I seen you have been through quite and emotional roller coaster. People have different types of friends the ones you need the most will be there for you and take the time to listen. It's far to easy to sit back and say "I know how you feel..." To me I find that untrue because we don't know how you feel, we might have had similar situations but the feeling you experience are yours.

What your friends need to do when any friend is experiencing grief is the ability to listen. Friends have to also know you may not need them at *that particular moment* he may not need *you* at that particular moment. But never the less you'll need your friends. Friends also have to know they might resent helping a friend where something in there life has affected them , and it shouldn't be precived as selfish or uncaring though it feels like everyone must be against you, this is a normal feeling by friends.

They feel like nothing they can do is either helping or they don't know either through lack of communication or understanding the parties evolved. Grief either it be from a loss of a loved one, loss of a job, broken relationship,loss of financial independence, or anything that can react to you profoundly is something that will take time and the support of your friends. *pats your back*