I give up...
first the injuryof loosing my mate. but now I also loose all progress I had made in my life. And it started out by asking why letting air out of a butter container matters. What does that have to do with anything? I'll explain, I came to my dad's for lunch, we were both in a relatively good mood except I was not looking forward to sanding on his vehicle all afternoon, but was gonna suck it up and do it, sense afterall he is getting my car aligned and is somewhat responsible for helping me get my car etc, note i've been helping him nearly everyday and on weekends since getting this car. Which he got for next to nothing btw. Well after we were done eating he said that I need to push on the lid of the container, i asked why, he said to let the air out, and I asked what does it matter if there's air in it.
this would be a logical question since I never knew it mattered, he promptly got all pissy and told me to stop making excuses on why I won't do things. I was alittle taken back but since he's like this all the time I bit my lip. So he wanted me to sand, can't sand on wet things right? My thoughts exactly, as I noticed it was starting to rain. So I told him we may have to put that on hold, as it's raining. He got uber pissed off told me to forget it go on home since i didn't want to do anythign he'd do it himself, and he cut me down once at this point I toned him out. he continued to raise his tone and I eventually said fine I've had enough anyways and went home.
And now he calls me nearly 5 hours later, and guilt trips me about someone else(Not him) is paying my bills, and making it all about money as allways, not about doing what's right for your son, last I checked that was what usually happenes. But no he continues to make me feel like shit for leaving 'cause he flew off the deep end at me for no reason at all. He then tells me he's done with me, that I need to switch the title into my name for my car or he'll send it to the junkyard(did that for insruance reasons, which they screwed him on anyways.). He then proceeded to send someone else who really didn't want to be in the middle of this, instead of coming himself(He sent his wife, whom i get along with perfectly.) to take my tag and my phone, which I had use the number on to apply at atleast 30 places, so now if they did call, I'd not know about it! So now my life is back in the shambles it was with me still a broken heart.
I really can't win, I swear I can't.....Keva out.
this would be a logical question since I never knew it mattered, he promptly got all pissy and told me to stop making excuses on why I won't do things. I was alittle taken back but since he's like this all the time I bit my lip. So he wanted me to sand, can't sand on wet things right? My thoughts exactly, as I noticed it was starting to rain. So I told him we may have to put that on hold, as it's raining. He got uber pissed off told me to forget it go on home since i didn't want to do anythign he'd do it himself, and he cut me down once at this point I toned him out. he continued to raise his tone and I eventually said fine I've had enough anyways and went home.
And now he calls me nearly 5 hours later, and guilt trips me about someone else(Not him) is paying my bills, and making it all about money as allways, not about doing what's right for your son, last I checked that was what usually happenes. But no he continues to make me feel like shit for leaving 'cause he flew off the deep end at me for no reason at all. He then tells me he's done with me, that I need to switch the title into my name for my car or he'll send it to the junkyard(did that for insruance reasons, which they screwed him on anyways.). He then proceeded to send someone else who really didn't want to be in the middle of this, instead of coming himself(He sent his wife, whom i get along with perfectly.) to take my tag and my phone, which I had use the number on to apply at atleast 30 places, so now if they did call, I'd not know about it! So now my life is back in the shambles it was with me still a broken heart.
I really can't win, I swear I can't.....Keva out.