Comments | kerydwenn: You know you don't want kids when you can demolish each of the following reasons without flinching

kerydwenn

You know you don't want kids when you can demolish each of the following reasons without flinching

Nov 23, 2005 11:59

Caught on cf_hardcore early morning today; a member had gotten this through e-mail from a family member. I still don't know whether I should chuckle or not, but the fact that I feel so alien to all of this tells me I've taken the good decision ( Read more... )

child free

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anonymous November 23 2005, 12:38:29 UTC

Lol.
I'm ok with you on nearly every points, but my mums can't stop saying to me "you're only 20, you will see in 10 years, you'lml crave for kids"
Kids are great when they are others.

And I love your icon btw

lilibel November 23 2005, 12:39:24 UTC

kerydwenn November 23 2005, 15:38:33 UTC

Well, they were also telling me at 20 "you'll change your mind", but now at 26, having been with the same guy for more than 5 years, living in our own house, and being in an "ideal situation" to have kids, my opinion still hasn't changed. I even managed to tell my bio clock "now shut up and stop making me fertile, you twat", and 30 will be here in a blink, and I'll still don't want kids *LOL*

lilibel November 23 2005, 16:02:06 UTC

I also got the biological parameters on my side like my coccyx who hurts like hell for multiple reason and won't support a kid.
Another reason, more psychological, this on, is that i got quite a problem with .... boys bits. lol. which actually is not always a problem when you want kids but it still be a good excuse ^^;

I'll see with my bio clock when she will start messing around.

kerydwenn November 23 2005, 19:33:35 UTC

Haha, that's indeed a good excuse. Anyway, the health problems should come first. it eludes me sometimes how people can want you to go through this when they know it might cripple you for some time, hurt you, whatever. (Like my mother... they told her "oh sure you can have a 3rd child, you'll just have to get shots in your belly everyday for one year and take crapload of medicatipn, else it'll kill you". No need to say we're only two kids: my sis and I.)