Ok i give up...for now
Ok so after a lot of reading, a headache and many failed attempts i have decided to give up trying to make my own layout for the moment and have found this wonderful Draco one done by janine42584
so many thanks to her. I would continue trying myself but i have so much housework to do i really must get off my arse lol.
I will have another attempt at it all later so Bubye for now :D