Jun 16, 2006 23:50
So I just got home from seeing the Break up. And let me tell you, this movie is one of the best I've seen in a long time. It was so true to life, I recommend anyone see it. But it got me thinking, about relationships and love.
I don't know how strongly I can stress the fact that I am completely happy being single. For once in my life lately, I've realized I just love being me, and can't settle for any guy right now. I believe that 1 and 1 make 2. I don't need someone else to make me whole. And during this time in my life... I can be completely selfish. And think of me, and only me......
Guys will always remain a mystery to me though. I honestly do NOT understand the way the male mind works. I don't know if I ever truly will!
But I DO know that relationships take a ton of work. SOOO MUCH work.... but most importantly, it's meeting that right person for you that is the hard part. The one thing that is exciting though, is learning more and more about yourself through every relationship you make. Even though one break up may be a complete DISASTER, it's all just preparing you for the next venture to come along.
So here's to many of many mistakes to come! All preparing me for the one day when I meet the right guy for me.
-Mack <3