*sigh*

[kelticdragon13]

why is it that everytime I find a good woman and fall head over heals in love with them, their ex's come back into the picture and get them all confused about their feelings and I end up having to deal with the tension in our relationship because of it? It happened with my ex wife andrea when the father of her daughter showed up and kept dropping by even after we was married telling her how he still loved her. It happened with bethany with that gangbanger prick ex boyfriend that she ran back to after using me for an emotional escape for a bit. and now its happening with cathy. she tells me she loves me and he hurt her in a way she could never forget and that I have nothing to worry about but that yes she does have mixed emotions and yes she does still care for him. So tell me, why do I feel so threatened when I trust her and I know she's telling me the truth that she would NEVER go back to him or leave me for him.is it just past expirences that make me feel so threatened? is it my low self esteem? or am I just a paranoid motherfucker who needs to grow the fuck up and be happy with the time I have with her and deal with it?
Why does love hurt so much? I'm just confused and I don't wanna lose cathy she means the world to me.

I can honestly see myself growing old with her.
Anybody have any advice on this?