Feb 28, 2006 21:44
i would just like to say..
look further into a person and realize who that person really is instead of judging based on impressions or mistakes..
i have this thing now.. When i look at a person unlkike most people i judge them by their character rather than their look. you can tell alot about a person based on their character. Looking at the way they talk or how they stand.. can tell you how a person is.. out going.. cocky.. shy.. nice.. etc..
Now i know people look at someone and say.. "oo that girl is pretty.. or look at the ass on that guy" yeah ok whatever but that's all good.
I dated a guy once way back before i came to my senses and this is what it was like.. Now he was a VERY good looking guy.. tall dark blonde hair.. muscles.. these lips to die for.. but ok getting off track.. want to know how long it lasted? a month.. this man looked like and angel but was reall awful to me. he smoked weed infront of me, despite his my complaints, he yelled, made me drive EVERYWHERE even though his car worked just fine.. on our dates.. which i wouldn't even call dates he made me pay for my self.. even though he had atlease 300 dollars sitting in his pocket that could be spent. No men don't consider this a rant about how my boyfriend didn't pay for things. by all means i can pay for my self. i don't mind.. EVERYONCE in a while.. but come on..
by the time this "relationship" was over i considered him ugly... butt ugly..
i see good looking people every day that loose their good looks by thier character..
I know people in highschool who were ok and nice and i respect who now i can even look at them with out gagging in my mouth.. they have let them selves be so UGLY.. not their looks but who they are.. mostly cocky sons of bitches but who knew.. i also know people from highschool who were the biggest assholes and who now i can respect.. who look in your eye when you talk to them.. who no longer talk the highschool shit they used to talk.. and who you can tell have finally grown up... other people i remember from highschool. haven't changed.. or they got worse.. i feel sorry for them i really do.. i just hope that the friends they are with and hang out with don't see what i see when i look at them..
the message of the day is... though you have an "image" you'd like for your self.... maybe you should look back a little and consider the people you hurt.. Everyone has thier people they don't like.. and by all means.. you don't have to like anyone.. but think of the impression you are giving to someone when you talk your shit.. and share a personal opinion no one else should know..
TREAT PEOPLE THE WAY YOU WOULD LIKE TO BE TREATED!!!!! Don't call a girl a whore... don't hit a family member for no reason.. and NEVER HIT THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH.. girl or boy... unacceptable..
oh and forgivness... will and can make you a better person... believe me.. people were never born perfect.. people make mistakes.. and we were never put on earth to judge eachothers sins and or mistakes.. leave it up to whoever whatever if ever you believe in..
THAT IS ALL..