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So I think that I'm pretty much over lj. I like tumblr a lot more :o) But, this seems like a much more LJ type post, so here I am.
I realized tonight that I'm the only single cousin on both sides of the family. Most of the time that means nothing to me, but Christmas time seems to be "parade your significant other" time for the past several years.
The thing is, I know why I'm single. It's not (well, not entirely) physical or superficial. It's for two reasons: 1) to risk the chance of sounding too much like Trav, I get so wrapped up in my friends that that's all I think about. And with the group of friends I have, we're so much like "Friends" that even the married couple isn't couple-y. We just have such a pack mentality. I love it, but I think it's working against me. And secondly, I guess I just have ridiculously high standards. That, and I swear that I'm socially retarded.
That being said, I think I'm really going to try and use match.com. I used to think it was pathetic, but now I see it's not. Whatever. And trust me, I'm not (at least I don't think that I am) looking for anything serious, it would just be nice to date so your grandma would stop thinking you're gay. But that's a whole different story. ♥
I realized tonight that I'm the only single cousin on both sides of the family. Most of the time that means nothing to me, but Christmas time seems to be "parade your significant other" time for the past several years.
The thing is, I know why I'm single. It's not (well, not entirely) physical or superficial. It's for two reasons: 1) to risk the chance of sounding too much like Trav, I get so wrapped up in my friends that that's all I think about. And with the group of friends I have, we're so much like "Friends" that even the married couple isn't couple-y. We just have such a pack mentality. I love it, but I think it's working against me. And secondly, I guess I just have ridiculously high standards. That, and I swear that I'm socially retarded.
That being said, I think I'm really going to try and use match.com. I used to think it was pathetic, but now I see it's not. Whatever. And trust me, I'm not (at least I don't think that I am) looking for anything serious, it would just be nice to date so your grandma would stop thinking you're gay. But that's a whole different story. ♥