This is one of those few times in my life that helping some one doing what's right and nessary relly sucks. And my ability to hide my true emotions are starting to fail.
Maybe your true emotions are trying to tell you something. Maybe they are not. Remember, there's a BIG difference between what feels good and what feels RIGHT!
Following your gut instinct is not about what feels GOOD, it's about what feels RIGHT! If something is too good to be true, then it is. If you have a bad feeling about something, DON'T EXPLAIN IT AWAY! You probably have a bad feeling about something for a reason. I have seen many of my dreams dashed to pieces. I always had a bad feeling before anything bad actually happened. Just because I wish it were true doesn't mean it's true. Bad feelings are there for a reason.
I've tried to help a lot of people. I really have. It often ended badly. The truth is, people don't like to listen, they just kind of want you to tell them what they want to hear. In the end, I often help people by listening but I don't give advice much anymore. Even if I do give advice, people often seem to know it anyway or at least they seem to be open to getting it on some level.
My big problem is this often. We all have things we have to go through to learn from it. There are times when there are no good options and no options that don't give me a bad feeling. It seems like there are just certain mistakes we have to make in order to learn from it. Buying up rental property seems like a BIG mistake to me. I've stalled a few deals but I won't stop my mother from buying things up in the long run. There's nothing else for me to do except work for my mom and her rental property.
There are certain people in my life that don't seem to serve any purpose other than to irritate the hell out of me. Then the people who seem like they SHOULD be in my life are just not around or flat out unavailable to me. In the end, it's often not my enemies that bring me down but it's the people close to me. Some people really DO enjoy seeing me fail. They really do.
Following your gut instinct is not about what feels GOOD, it's about what feels RIGHT! If something is too good to be true, then it is. If you have a bad feeling about something, DON'T EXPLAIN IT AWAY! You probably have a bad feeling about something for a reason. I have seen many of my dreams dashed to pieces. I always had a bad feeling before anything bad actually happened. Just because I wish it were true doesn't mean it's true. Bad feelings are there for a reason.
I've tried to help a lot of people. I really have. It often ended badly. The truth is, people don't like to listen, they just kind of want you to tell them what they want to hear. In the end, I often help people by listening but I don't give advice much anymore. Even if I do give advice, people often seem to know it anyway or at least they seem to be open to getting it on some level.
My big problem is this often. We all have things we have to go through to learn from it. There are times when there are no good options and no options that don't give me a bad feeling. It seems like there are just certain mistakes we have to make in order to learn from it. Buying up rental property seems like a BIG mistake to me. I've stalled a few deals but I won't stop my mother from buying things up in the long run. There's nothing else for me to do except work for my mom and her rental property.
There are certain people in my life that don't seem to serve any purpose other than to irritate the hell out of me. Then the people who seem like they SHOULD be in my life are just not around or flat out unavailable to me. In the end, it's often not my enemies that bring me down but it's the people close to me. Some people really DO enjoy seeing me fail. They really do.
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