The continuing SAGA................
(is there an e in continueing? I can't decide) Anyway today is Saturday - I told Mom last night that I hadn't actually slept in in over three weeks and that I was missing breakfast today to do that.. Well....... of course Murphy's Law kicks in - the neighbors were having a new roof put on - yea 7AM bounding, talking, music - things being thrown off the roof. I hate neighborhoods........... I so do not miss being in one.... and I defitely miss the country. I went to the hospital just after lunch and stayed about an hour - Mom needed to take a nap - we did venture outside for awhile, there is a church across the street from the hospital so every Saturday (well the past two) we have watched the weddings - people going in - Brides coming out - it has been a highlight of the day. I am taking her laptop up later this afternoon to set up for awhile in the "community room", I am hoping it does nothing more than get her out of the bed - when I am at the hospital, I make her sit in a chair - the bed sucks her in and she can't wake up - of course it does! She apologized today for being so demanding, when I asked her what she was talking about - she said it was because she was making me be here. I told her she wasn't making me do anything - but hoped that when this is all done she will realize her wack job husband, is just that, a wack job and she finally leaves. She has been packing her stuff for about 10 years now - if she doesn't leave after this, I guess she never will. The thing that I hope she does realize in awhile, is that on the Monday of the mini-stroke if he was anything of a man or husband he would have insisted she stay in the hospital for evaluation. But he let her come home and said there was nothing wrong with her - and then three days later - massive stroke! My Aunt was here and she tried to get her to stay and wanted to go to the hospital with him, after they took her by ambulance (this is on Monday) but he wouldn't let her so she was at his mercy and couldn't do anything - just pray eventually my Mom will realize this and maybe not hold him responsible, but at least realize he was being very selfish and just didn't want to deal with it....... its so crazy, he's so crazy! makes me crazy!! ok that's it for now -