PISSED..
Well my grandmother has been having some problems since her place flooded. They finally have carpet chosen, flooring chosen, and a date to move the furmiture etc. However, it comes out that basically my kids and I are not welcome to come and help. She didn't say it exactly but that was the jist.
"I would ask that you be careful on Sunday if you are coming down with Steve. Mom was so upset by your reaction to her not having Thanksgiving in her mess that she wasn't sure what to do. This whole deal has been very hard on her. We could certainly use all the help we can get of workers, but Sunday is going to be especially hard. If you come, come with a positive attitude to help. Don't bring the kids. Mom is having a hard enough time to get used to not being in the house Daddy got for her. She does not need anything going on that is a negative undercurrent. The holidays are especially hard without Daddy or your mom. She needs to be distracted in a positive sense, not to have all that is going wrong heaped upon with more added. Sandy"
So we won't go. I will show it to Dad today at Hailey's birthday. Then I will forward it to the rest of the family with a topic on it that says something to the effect of "I won't be attending because...". Steve probably won't go either. Why would he go help out where we aren't welcome? I'm pissed, I'm hurt, I'm upset.
Yes I was upset about Thanksgiving. I was upset because no one else got the chance to talk to Nana about it. I have spent Thanksgiving at my Grandmother's house for 30 years. Why couldn't we have invited her here. If she can make it to Gardner, which is an hour or so away, why can't she make it 15 min away. And no one else is invited to join.
Well time to try and concentrate on homework. Ever since Mom died, Sandy has tried to push me away. No matter what it was. She and her grandaughter have been the center of attention. I'm tired of it. I don't know what I'm going to do, but I better think on it, or it won't be good.