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After much thought and entirely too many creeps in my life, I've come to the conclusion that people really aren't worth second chances or the benefit of the doubt. I'm getting tired of being hurt by trying not to judge others and being nice. From now on, if somebody vibes like a creeper or otherwise unpleasant character, that's forever what they will be and I will hesitate no longer in telling them to step off and leave me alone. I'm done.
The rule seems to be that if people lack friends, or life is unduly hard for them, or any other scenario that might at first evoke pity or sympathy, it's likely the fault of the people themselves. This isn't a movie, totally awesome people who are kind and good usually aren't abandoned by society and treated as lepers. There's usually a good reason, some sort of colossal fault that's terribly obvious to everyone except the person in question.
Another thing to pay attention to is reports from other people. If the general consensus is that a person is no good and others should be warned about them, maybe it would be a good idea to listen. That's like walking past a big DANGER sign because you don't think cliffs could honestly be that dangerous.
The rule seems to be that if people lack friends, or life is unduly hard for them, or any other scenario that might at first evoke pity or sympathy, it's likely the fault of the people themselves. This isn't a movie, totally awesome people who are kind and good usually aren't abandoned by society and treated as lepers. There's usually a good reason, some sort of colossal fault that's terribly obvious to everyone except the person in question.
Another thing to pay attention to is reports from other people. If the general consensus is that a person is no good and others should be warned about them, maybe it would be a good idea to listen. That's like walking past a big DANGER sign because you don't think cliffs could honestly be that dangerous.