Closing a chapter of my life
I always did regret how things turned out between me and Arch. I mean, we had a good relationship for awhile. And then the relationship ended and we didn't notice. And in all reality, we should have broken up then. Everything bad that happened between us was basically because we were too slow to notice that we weren't in love anymore
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I repeatedly voiced a desire to end this, or at least take it someplace else, and yet here we are, airing our dirty laundry in the LJ of one of the very few people whose opinion I still give a shit about from those days. Because you pressed the issue. You could not let it die, or even take it someplace else. Do you see the irony here?
All I really want from you people is to be left alone. I don't care if we ever post in the same place, just keep your mouths shut about me, and it will be cool. Failing that, be civil and don't start shit with me, and I'll return the favor. See above, where Terrant posted in response to me? If I was looking for it, I could definitely take some offense to the implied criticism in the opening sentence, but I chose not to. And you know what I think of Terrant. If he and I can peacefully co-exist, the problem just might not be all me.
One last thing, before is discussion is completely over. This is Kat's LJ. I don't know if you, Mooo, remember what my friendship with Kat's been like over the years. Not exactly the most stable thing in the world. We've been at each other's throats more than once. But today I think of her as one of my very best friends. We disagree on a lot of things, and we both have lots of interests that aren't mutual, but still. I enjoy her company and respect her opinion enough that when rough patches hit, it's worthwhile to work through them. So I do know what that's all about. The fact that she's blaming me for this mess is a bit hurtful, but whatever. Here's the essential bit.
When I say that it's time to take the fight somewhere else, I fucking mean it. I did not want to burden Kat with our shit. If this ends up happening again, you will listen to me when I tell you so. If you make me upset my friends again, you'll see me really angry for the first time.
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I'm not going to leave what apparently you think of as your internet just so you don't have to see me around. Just ignore me if I disgust you so much.
Nate decided to drop it as soon as Kat asked you both to, and it would have been nice if you could have done the same. I thought that since the argument was about me I could do one reply and then let it go.
Now, Kat, your friend, has asked you to stop it, so please don't respond. Just pretend I'm not here from now on and we'll all be happy.
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