Closing a chapter of my life

[katastraphy]

I always did regret how things turned out between me and Arch. I mean, we had a good relationship for awhile. And then the relationship ended and we didn't notice. And in all reality, we should have broken up then. Everything bad that happened between us was basically because we were too slow to notice that we weren't in love anymore

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[katastraphy]

I'm sorry dear, but you're completely and totally off base. I have NEVER EVER believed that Arch was in any way, shape or form "stolen" from me. The Arch and I broke up, officially, about 4 months prior to the two ever getting together. What I may have said, with a huge empathsis on may, was that I saw signs that they would probably get together, and that I resent Arch waited for me to get together with my current boyfriend before making that relationship official. I may have said that he was more comfortable with her than with me in the last year of our relationship. But I NEVER thought he was "stolen." I believe one of the first things he told Seven was that our relationship had ended much much earlier and I fully agree with this assessment.

And there was no phone call. There was no real "settled" after that incident.

Did I "trash" him in a public blog? Selfishly, yes. I knew he read it, and I knew he did not have an account. When I aired my opinion about our fights in this blog, it was for his benefit. When I complained about our latest fight, it was because I needed a friend because I was upset about it. 99% of our fights were private.

And yes, I still am going out with Frank.