I do think HE needs to step up and hand over the armband. I think it would be the right gesture and reunite the England fans and team. But I know him well enough to know I don't think he will do that. He is an arrogant dick. (yes, and I still love him)
Maybe I feel in this case that he has betrayed me, in some way, personally, and I feel very strongly that people who do not have a personal stake in this have no right to judge. (the ONTD posts have made me physically ill) And I also thing that everyone has a right to feel what they do, but the cruelty and hate which comes from a place that has nothing to do with this situation is upsetting.
Then again, I guess the saddest part of me says "You know, this isn't new. We already knew this about him, why are we suddenly so surprised by it?" Why were we okay with him before and now he's suddenly a pariah? This story isn't even new. Those in and around Chelsea already knew it, anyway, the papers just weren't allowed to print it.
It's funny, because cheating is not something I approve of or would EVER do myself. I've had women who were horrible to me because they thought I would be after "their men", and it offended me that they would think that of me. Do not take your insecurities about your relationship and turn them into a moral judgment against me.
Anyway, I ramble. Thank you for listening. I know we have not always seen eye to eye, but you, unlike a lot of people, are able to look at situations and think rather than react.
Maybe I feel in this case that he has betrayed me, in some way, personally, and I feel very strongly that people who do not have a personal stake in this have no right to judge. (the ONTD posts have made me physically ill) And I also thing that everyone has a right to feel what they do, but the cruelty and hate which comes from a place that has nothing to do with this situation is upsetting.
Then again, I guess the saddest part of me says "You know, this isn't new. We already knew this about him, why are we suddenly so surprised by it?" Why were we okay with him before and now he's suddenly a pariah? This story isn't even new. Those in and around Chelsea already knew it, anyway, the papers just weren't allowed to print it.
It's funny, because cheating is not something I approve of or would EVER do myself. I've had women who were horrible to me because they thought I would be after "their men", and it offended me that they would think that of me. Do not take your insecurities about your relationship and turn them into a moral judgment against me.
Anyway, I ramble. Thank you for listening. I know we have not always seen eye to eye, but you, unlike a lot of people, are able to look at situations and think rather than react.
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