my sister is an idiot and her husband is a sorry bumb

Aug 01, 2010 16:38

Annoyed. My sister is disabled. She claims she has a bad back but the truth of the matter is she's addicted to pain meds. She recently got out of rehab. It was obvious to me that her back pain wasn't disabling because she could go and do stuff she wanted to do and her back wouldn't bother her. And then she was popping way more pain pills than was necessary and sleeping all day and staying doped up. Since she's young, she only gets a small amount of disability pay each month. Her husband has moved from job to job and quits whenever he wants. He quit a good job with benefits where he ran the office by himself because he felt 'stressed out". He hasn't looked for a job for months now. He lives off my sister's disability check.... used her back pay to buy himself a boat and a new truck while her car doesn't run. They live in a tiny camper on a piece of his family's land...amongst a bunch of run down campers and cars on blocks with goats and chickens running around and weeds everywhere. They live like hill billies.

That being said. I live with my parents but I keep the house clean. I clean the bathrooms, keep the kitchen and dishes clean, I do all the laundry. I dust, mop, sweep. My parents are going out of town, on vacation. My sister contacts me to inform me she is coming to house sit. What the fuck for? I'm here. She said she's coming to let the dogs out. What the fuck for? I'm here. I let my own dog out all day long and I can let them out too. I also feed my dog and the other dogs. The truth of the matter is, they are coming to have a little vacation from their tiny, stinky camper. And I won't be able to have a little time to myself for once and I won't be able to walk around half dressed like I like to do.

The problem I have with that is this....they do nothing to clean up after themselves. They sleep all day when they are here. They bring their nasty, flea ridden dog with them that pees and poos everywhere. (We have no fleas.) They eat up all of the food in the house, don't bring their own food. They don't dump their leftovers in the garbage but throw their dirty dishes in the sink with food in it...then let me clean up all their crap. They cook everything they can find in the house and dirty up every dish.

Of course, they didn't bring any food with them when they showed up just now. Mom and dad have not bought groceries so the only food that is in the house is mine for my diet I'm on. Mom and dad are not planning on buying groceries but are now talking about having to go to the store to buy groceries before they go on vacation for my sister and her husband to eat (and they eat a shitload of food, trust me). (Oh, and my parents aren't rich. Their budget is very tight. Mom's having to go without some of her meds this month because she can't afford $600 dollars worth of prescriptions for her diabetes and heart condition.) Mom was talking about them baking a cake. I can't eat cake and don't allow it anywhere around me and now I get to smell it and see it. Oh, and the only food they do eat is fattening junk food and sweets and pizza.

The worst part is how they spend their money. They are broke as hell. Mom pays some of their bills...their car insurance, she pays for their meds. My sister recently ordered $300 worth of candy. Yes, candy. Instead of bringing food with them that they can eat, she bought my nephew (not her kid) a bag full of clothes. That boy doesn't need clothes. He has a ton of clothes. Why not spend money on their bills or for groceries or their meds instead of letting my parents do it while they sit on their asses?

I get to put up with their asses for a solid week. I've already told mom to tell them to empty their leftovers in the garbage and wash their own dishes. They better not touch any of my groceries either. And, they better keep that cake put up so I can't see it.

Oh, and the husband doesn't like Scottie and says if Scottie comes over, he'll just go to the back of the house. He is rude to Scottie, won't even speak to him. Why? Because he is jealous because Scottie gets a lot of attention from the rest of the family regarding his art. The husband says he gets sick of all of us going on about his art work. So, he doesn't want Scottie over here when they are here. What? I live here...and Scottie will come over!! I told my sister this and she said, "well, we'll just leave early then." Good riddance!!!

Oh, and when my parents are here, they never want to come visit. The ONLY reason they want to be here is to be by themselves and have a holiday while my parents are gone. Well, I'm here and there will be no holiday!!
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