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Yeahh so today has been wayway crappy.
Some girl over heard me and amanda talking about all the dustin.
So then she was like yelling at me and telling me she was going to tell dustin that i am breaking up for him for nick? i dont know where she got that. Im breaking up with him because i only think of him as a best friend. I dont want to lead him on.
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that is a major problem usually bound to happen when you go from best friends or really close friends to dating them. if you are close enough friends your relationship will heal from the break up if you do it in a nice way and explain things out to him. guys are sometimes slow and need it explained so they understand what goes on in our minds. he will be hurt, i won't lie to you, and he may be mad at you and not speak to you for a while until he heals and is able to move on. your relationship may not go back to normal for a while but that is to be expected. BUT eventually he will be your friend again, it may just take some time so be prepared for him to get mad, hurt, and angry with you. just remember he does have a right to be upset and if you do want him to still be your friend you must repect that.
in fact let him know that you understand that he is upset/mad/angry and that you still want to be his friend whenever he is ready and that you respect his need to have some space and understand etc... something to that effect. good luck. just don't go out with another guy for a little while, wait a while otherwise it will be like a slap to his face and ego and may ruin any chance of him being your friend later on. remember to let him know that you value him and repsect him no matter how upset he may get at you, that you still value you him as a friend.
again good luck let me know how it goes :)
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