an unusual toy time? or maybe it will speed up now ...

Jan 16, 2024 21:08

I am playing with toys tonight, and I am becoming slightly intoxicated, but I'm not feeling as deeply into it as I usually do, probably because I've had days off from work and work isn't busy and I quit work early today, and there was all that MAL stuff, which included toys already, so. It's more of, yeah, I'm playing with toys at my own pace while doing other things. Not because I'm craving them.

I'm having some low-grade back spasms from time to time, most likely from all the snow exertion today. It's not bad, just little twinges that tell me it was correct to treat the snow stuff as my exercise for the day. I should be able to stretch when I wake tomorrow. Then I'll decide whether to do aerobics or lifting or even both. Not sure about going on a walk on potentially icy sidewalks -- not everybody shovels like they're supposed to.

I am pleased that I've been having a text chat with K about various things, giving each other some feedback about the weekend. Was trying to start up similar text chats with the other men I saw over the weekend, but that's not happening yet. To discuss what worked and whether anything didn't, and because tonight I'm finally by myself after all that stuff, so I'm trying to keep the "drop" gentle by staying in touch with the men I saw.

Now I'm by myself, after being passed from significant person to significant person and back again and back again and then to another significant person, and now -- nobody else is here, just me. I know I'll see B again tomorrow, but not sure yet when I'll see the other three men.

B was willing to have a short phone call to check in, and I was able to remind him -- he's feeling lonely in the hotel -- that his husband is arriving on Saturday, and that generally he can spend as much time here at the house as he wants. He told me yesterday that with his condo destroyed, he's not sure he wants to keep it after it is fixed. He may need to rethink where he wants to live, after having it yanked away for an arbitrary period of time.

Perhaps I should've tried calling T earlier, it's definitely past his bedtime already, he's on a regimented schedule when he's up in CT/NY. I barely interacted with him over the weekend, but he knew MAL was going on and that K was visiting. And we'd had all the Christmas NYE time together ...

Maybe B & I can call T together tomorrow evening.

Oh, they ended their couples counseling -- a success, they said. Good.

k, event drop, bug night, mal

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