6 hours with Robin
That was a long first date!
We never left the hotel, but we sort of bar hopped within the hotel and also hopped between the room and the various bars, and the room's balcony, and had plenty of makeout time in the bed, and showered together, and had dinner, and watched part of one of his favorite films, with SO MUCH CONVERSATION, he's quite the talker.
It was fun! Not sure we're compatible for any sort of long-term, but right now we live on opposite coasts anyway. If he were to visit me at the condo we could play around with various kink equipment that I didn't have here.
He was willing to spend the night together, whereas I wasn't sure, but he was convinced by my experience with jet lag such that I'll probably wake at 5am local time and then have to work until I head to the airport, so, not that fun for him to wake here with me, so he took an Uber back to his house that he shares with 9 other people.
His life sounded sort of disorganized but he's only 23 and doesn't have a college degree so is working odd jobs while taking the odd class. He's got experience as a political organizer, and is about as liberal as I am. His family situation is messed up -- he was adopted as a baby and doesn't know his birth parents, but then both adoptive parents died while he was still young, so he was mainly raised by his adoptive grandparents, who then threw him out of the house when he turned out to be gay. So he's moved around a lot as a young adult trying to figure himself out, while meeting and sleeping with a lot of older gay guys.
We had totally safe sex, no anal, and no orgasm inside a mouth or butt, but it was some fierce role play with wrestling, pinning, spanking, ball slapping, and water sports, as we both tried to assert dominance and he pretended to be a feral boy I'd discovered while camping in the forest.
He's also trying to be poly in a triad so I gave him some advice about how each person in the triad needs their own space and each couple in the triad needs their own 2-person relationship.
He seems to be looking for a sugar daddy type live-in BDSM thing for the long-term, about which I said I couldn't meet his needs right now, I have too many households, partners, pets, and too stressful a job.
But, he thinks I'm the perfect combo of hairy, polite, kinky, muscular, and snuggly. He'd been worried I'd turn out to be a gay Republican LOL.
Well, I'm glad I met somebody new while traveling and had a good time :-)
Now for some sleep, then traveling back to house and cats tomorrow.
We never left the hotel, but we sort of bar hopped within the hotel and also hopped between the room and the various bars, and the room's balcony, and had plenty of makeout time in the bed, and showered together, and had dinner, and watched part of one of his favorite films, with SO MUCH CONVERSATION, he's quite the talker.
It was fun! Not sure we're compatible for any sort of long-term, but right now we live on opposite coasts anyway. If he were to visit me at the condo we could play around with various kink equipment that I didn't have here.
He was willing to spend the night together, whereas I wasn't sure, but he was convinced by my experience with jet lag such that I'll probably wake at 5am local time and then have to work until I head to the airport, so, not that fun for him to wake here with me, so he took an Uber back to his house that he shares with 9 other people.
His life sounded sort of disorganized but he's only 23 and doesn't have a college degree so is working odd jobs while taking the odd class. He's got experience as a political organizer, and is about as liberal as I am. His family situation is messed up -- he was adopted as a baby and doesn't know his birth parents, but then both adoptive parents died while he was still young, so he was mainly raised by his adoptive grandparents, who then threw him out of the house when he turned out to be gay. So he's moved around a lot as a young adult trying to figure himself out, while meeting and sleeping with a lot of older gay guys.
We had totally safe sex, no anal, and no orgasm inside a mouth or butt, but it was some fierce role play with wrestling, pinning, spanking, ball slapping, and water sports, as we both tried to assert dominance and he pretended to be a feral boy I'd discovered while camping in the forest.
He's also trying to be poly in a triad so I gave him some advice about how each person in the triad needs their own space and each couple in the triad needs their own 2-person relationship.
He seems to be looking for a sugar daddy type live-in BDSM thing for the long-term, about which I said I couldn't meet his needs right now, I have too many households, partners, pets, and too stressful a job.
But, he thinks I'm the perfect combo of hairy, polite, kinky, muscular, and snuggly. He'd been worried I'd turn out to be a gay Republican LOL.
Well, I'm glad I met somebody new while traveling and had a good time :-)
Now for some sleep, then traveling back to house and cats tomorrow.