appreciating nonconsensual sex as fantasy

[kanzeon_2040]

One of my all-time favorite porn videos is an animation of a hunky young superhero who has been immobilized by tentacles, more tentacles then comprehensively rape him.  Tentacles sucking his nipples, stroking his cock, fucking his ass -- I wish they were also fucking his throat.  Despite himself, he enjoys the assault and cums and afterward becomes

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[matrixmann]

"Is this really how sex drives work, that you need to satiate them, and that a fictional portrayal does the trick and saves others from actual rape? Or does the porn create drives that were not intrinsic?"

This is a very interesting question...

As far as my own observations in this sector reach, I think I'd set up a theory here of genetic predisposition and life events/experiences.
In detail, that would Some people do have an inborn base for developing greater sexual "extravagance", which then sees activation earlier or later during the course of their lives, and some don't have that and therefore can see no "awakening" because of that, or they learn sexual deviant behavior during the course of their lives (prefrentially through rather extreme life experiences, as early as it can be).

I set up that theory because there are truly people out there which don't seek a "sexual liberation", which aren't prude or that, or better say - which feel fine with that prude way of handling sexuality. They enjoy their missionary position in bed and don't want anything stuck into their ass, their mouth and their pussy/on their dick at the same time. For some reason, they simply aren't into that and can't be won over to even try anything else than that.

Then, in contrast to that, you have a unrivaled variety of sexual deviations spread among humans. Some lesser unusual and extreme, some exotic, very complex and extreme to the point that special care needs to be taken to not make them end in harm to their possessors. And those people who have them also can't be trained or restricted to give them up in the long term - like it's an essential part of them.
Them not that rarely even citing, there desires have emerged in them already in an early age where adult sexuality still was far away from them.

So, what to make out of that?
Obviously, there seems to be a in inborn base to unfold and end up in that, but seemingly not all people are born with that.
And just the same obviously, there are people with not that much a strong base to undergo such a mental development, but they see such experiences happening to them throughout their lives - and this makes an impact on how they can and/or want to be sexual for either parts of their lives or for the rest of their lives overall (multiple traumata often have such effects).

The question seems to be complex and dependent on a lot of switches that either have to exist in a person to be be activated, and then have to be activated in order to result in anything.

And, by the way, this goes way beyond "rape", "no consent" and "consent".
If you, say, harbor fantasies about a soldier in his fight dress fucking you, and you being similarly dressed during the act, the core issue isn't really about consent (if assuming that both are doing this on mutual agreement), but nearly 99% of all people deemed that not a conventional way of having sex even though. Most would even deem it "extreme".

(Consent and no consent are very much a bubble of the academically-educated sphere that is engaged in social justice politics. There is more to human sexuality that breaks the limits of conventional cultural norms.)