Delaying my next draw ...
Finally, nine days later, after the previous ten days later, I am allowed to draw another card today.
But I don't think I will. It would be a waste if today I were to have the 10% chance of an orgasm, or the 8% chance of an edging day, because I'm going to be babysitting a plumber at the condo for hours. If I were at the condo by myself today, it would be a perfect day to unlock my cock. But it's a tiny condo! Plumber for hours!
I hope to return to the condo on Friday for a Night to Self, and then I'll draw my next card on Saturday morning. Might stay two nights at the condo for the first time in weeks, but I'll have to see. We still need to move stuff back into the basement, so perhaps a one night stay and then moving stuff on Sunday. I should get a couple nights at the condo the following weekend, because with Turkey Day I'm having four days off from work.
Yesterday I had to move the plants indoors from the patio, because of a freeze warning. Our first stab of winter has arrived.
I'm feeling more caught up on work stuff, but I might have to work for a few hours on Sunday because of a Monday deadline, and because the other people on this project are still pulling their pieces together. So, yeah, probably just a one-night stay at the condo on Friday night. Can have a two-night stay next time.
T had invited that other household over for Turkey Dinner, but they haven't accepted yet. If they do accept, it will have been 10 days since a Maids Day so there will be a bunch of cleaning that day.
I should be able to resume weight lifting tomorrow, finally. And my left tricep feels all better now.
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Oh, I have a new online chat buddy, his name is Matt. Coincidentally, he lives in Portland, where K moved to. He's a high school english teacher and he's into older guys with big chests, so he's been digging on (masturbating to) pics of my chest. I "met" him on Reddit, where he displayed an unusual ability to write in full paragraphs and converse about topics other than sex and sending him cash. He's lonely living by himself in quarantine and wants to form a connection with an older guy, so, I'm trying. So far I tend to fall asleep soon after his work day ends, though -- three-hour time difference. I may get more into conversing with him over the weekend when he's not working and I'm staying up later.
I've generally been anti chat buddies who I'll never meet, since I moved in with Tod at the beginning of 2005. Since then I've felt I'd rather drain my introvert tanks with people who I actually get to hang out with in person. When a guy I met online would just want to chat forever instead of meeting, I'd lose interest. But, the pandemic feels like a special case, and I've been wondering how I can fill some of the emotional gap left by K's move. So when I saw Matt's personal ad, I gave it a shot.
Similar to how I've been agreeing to virtual board games with Steve, and phone calls with people, and maybe a Skype Toy Date with David (that's Brooklyn David, who I had a crush on many years ago, before some aspects of his personality started bugging me, but he's older now).
Matt likes to chat via Kik, so I downloaded that again. He's a bit taller than me, slim, brown hair, in shape, in his early 30s. He sounds very serious so far, I'm wondering how to access his sense of humor. But it could be that he's depressed and lonely. Sounds like he's taking quarantine very seriously, doesn't enjoy working virtually. He says he hasn't used hookup apps in years. We'll see whether I can figure out how to make him laugh. Might be easier if he allowed me to talk with him on the phone, or via video.
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Gotta get up and go to the condo! Plumbing Day!
But I don't think I will. It would be a waste if today I were to have the 10% chance of an orgasm, or the 8% chance of an edging day, because I'm going to be babysitting a plumber at the condo for hours. If I were at the condo by myself today, it would be a perfect day to unlock my cock. But it's a tiny condo! Plumber for hours!
I hope to return to the condo on Friday for a Night to Self, and then I'll draw my next card on Saturday morning. Might stay two nights at the condo for the first time in weeks, but I'll have to see. We still need to move stuff back into the basement, so perhaps a one night stay and then moving stuff on Sunday. I should get a couple nights at the condo the following weekend, because with Turkey Day I'm having four days off from work.
Yesterday I had to move the plants indoors from the patio, because of a freeze warning. Our first stab of winter has arrived.
I'm feeling more caught up on work stuff, but I might have to work for a few hours on Sunday because of a Monday deadline, and because the other people on this project are still pulling their pieces together. So, yeah, probably just a one-night stay at the condo on Friday night. Can have a two-night stay next time.
T had invited that other household over for Turkey Dinner, but they haven't accepted yet. If they do accept, it will have been 10 days since a Maids Day so there will be a bunch of cleaning that day.
I should be able to resume weight lifting tomorrow, finally. And my left tricep feels all better now.
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Oh, I have a new online chat buddy, his name is Matt. Coincidentally, he lives in Portland, where K moved to. He's a high school english teacher and he's into older guys with big chests, so he's been digging on (masturbating to) pics of my chest. I "met" him on Reddit, where he displayed an unusual ability to write in full paragraphs and converse about topics other than sex and sending him cash. He's lonely living by himself in quarantine and wants to form a connection with an older guy, so, I'm trying. So far I tend to fall asleep soon after his work day ends, though -- three-hour time difference. I may get more into conversing with him over the weekend when he's not working and I'm staying up later.
I've generally been anti chat buddies who I'll never meet, since I moved in with Tod at the beginning of 2005. Since then I've felt I'd rather drain my introvert tanks with people who I actually get to hang out with in person. When a guy I met online would just want to chat forever instead of meeting, I'd lose interest. But, the pandemic feels like a special case, and I've been wondering how I can fill some of the emotional gap left by K's move. So when I saw Matt's personal ad, I gave it a shot.
Similar to how I've been agreeing to virtual board games with Steve, and phone calls with people, and maybe a Skype Toy Date with David (that's Brooklyn David, who I had a crush on many years ago, before some aspects of his personality started bugging me, but he's older now).
Matt likes to chat via Kik, so I downloaded that again. He's a bit taller than me, slim, brown hair, in shape, in his early 30s. He sounds very serious so far, I'm wondering how to access his sense of humor. But it could be that he's depressed and lonely. Sounds like he's taking quarantine very seriously, doesn't enjoy working virtually. He says he hasn't used hookup apps in years. We'll see whether I can figure out how to make him laugh. Might be easier if he allowed me to talk with him on the phone, or via video.
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Gotta get up and go to the condo! Plumbing Day!