Re: finally able to read and commentkajornwanJuly 31 2011, 01:22:33 UTC
Some ppl tell me this too, but not the lack of courage that stops them, rather the ego. Men can't deal with rejection and will only woo a woman they think they're capable of getting to save their ego. I would believe in this theory that for a handsome man/pretty woman the chance of rejection is high because 1. Most likely he/she is taken. 2.Being pretty means she/he can choose therefore standard must be high 3. He/she must be difficult to get. But if this is true then why do other pretty girls get the flowers on valentines and I don't and why men with assets don't look at me either? I figure there's something else to it, and that is fear of rejection/ego because even the girls I know all say I look 'inaccessible', and my standard for men is not high but hard to meet since it's due to length of hair, I rarely give any man with sort hair a second glance. My conclusion though, I find it frustrating that 1.If a man truly likes me he should try to go for it even if I already have a BF 2. If a man truly likes me he should keep trying and trying rejections after rejections 3.everything good in this world is bloody hard to get. Mikhail is a dream come true. His assets may have something to do with it, but not every man with assets likes a challenge and is persistent or dedicated. I don't think Mik gives a second thought whether the one he wants is taken, he fears no rejection enough to go after the hardest one to get just because he must have him/her, and he's bold enough to get down on his knees and sing an opera in the middle of Times Square to woo someone and still find no dent in his self-esteem when the person tries to smack him in the middle of the crowd for it.
Now for Yoh, I totally understand your story and the resemblence to Yoh which is why you love him so. I do believe that Yoh has the dedication and guts, don't get me wrong, those are his greatest assets, what he lacks, I don't know how to explain, but if you put Mik's personality in Yoh's shoes things will turn out very differently. For one thing i find him to be indecisive - not knowing exactly what he wants or knows it but can't choose between pride, duty, and love or he thinks too much (like you did) and follows his head rather than his heart. And there is nothing wrong with it, it's a wiser thing to do really, and this way you save yourself from trouble and heartache. I'm just a bit more extreme like Mik, I'm more likely to choose the path I know will hurt me if I could just get a glimpse of paradise rather than live safely and have a so-so life experience. I have no prejudice with Yoh, not anymore anyway. And I like him a lot now actually. But you can see why, while I understand completely how Yoh feels and sympathize with him, he will never be enough for me. He is a pretty secluded beach on earth you will feel safe and happy with for the rest of your life - a wiser match and what most people would choose, Mikhail and Fei is the Maldives or Bora Bora - The paradise you can only glimpse maybe once or twice in your life after working your ass off for about 10 years just to be there for 5 days - paradise most ppl look at the pricetag and say "lol, like I'll ever get to go" and throw the poster away. Me, I look at it everyday and swore to myself that even if I have to steal, I will see it before I die. Mikhail is an extremely dangerous character to get involved with, like Del said, if he doesn't love Fei he will hurt him more than Asami is capable of and that's why a lot of people don't trust him. But if he does,'if' he does, Fei will not just be safe and happy, he'll be in paradise!
.....actually right now, it just so happens that I'm broke and I must settle for Yoh while I save for Mik. No Kenya/Zanzibar this year T_T going to Krabi for 2 nights next month, still I'm thankful for Yoh ^_^ I need my beach.
Re: finally able to read and commentkajornwanJuly 31 2011, 02:45:33 UTC
Lol are you goin on vacation? Where?
Well, look at me, heartache, tears, a cheating husband and a disease. All marriage are miserable at some point and several times no matter who you choose I think, you just have to do the math, and if good times exceeds the bad, it's worth it to me.
"My Posession?" you mean I have a "taken" sign on my forehead? I've always thought it was "short hair, sodd off!"
Now for Yoh, I totally understand your story and the resemblence to Yoh which is why you love him so. I do believe that Yoh has the dedication and guts, don't get me wrong, those are his greatest assets, what he lacks, I don't know how to explain, but if you put Mik's personality in Yoh's shoes things will turn out very differently. For one thing i find him to be indecisive - not knowing exactly what he wants or knows it but can't choose between pride, duty, and love or he thinks too much (like you did) and follows his head rather than his heart. And there is nothing wrong with it, it's a wiser thing to do really, and this way you save yourself from trouble and heartache. I'm just a bit more extreme like Mik, I'm more likely to choose the path I know will hurt me if I could just get a glimpse of paradise rather than live safely and have a so-so life experience. I have no prejudice with Yoh, not anymore anyway. And I like him a lot now actually. But you can see why, while I understand completely how Yoh feels and sympathize with him, he will never be enough for me. He is a pretty secluded beach on earth you will feel safe and happy with for the rest of your life - a wiser match and what most people would choose, Mikhail and Fei is the Maldives or Bora Bora - The paradise you can only glimpse maybe once or twice in your life after working your ass off for about 10 years just to be there for 5 days - paradise most ppl look at the pricetag and say "lol, like I'll ever get to go" and throw the poster away. Me, I look at it everyday and swore to myself that even if I have to steal, I will see it before I die. Mikhail is an extremely dangerous character to get involved with, like Del said, if he doesn't love Fei he will hurt him more than Asami is capable of and that's why a lot of people don't trust him. But if he does,'if' he does, Fei will not just be safe and happy, he'll be in paradise!
.....actually right now, it just so happens that I'm broke and I must settle for Yoh while I save for Mik. No Kenya/Zanzibar this year T_T going to Krabi for 2 nights next month, still I'm thankful for Yoh ^_^ I need my beach.
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Well, look at me, heartache, tears, a cheating husband and a disease. All marriage are miserable at some point and several times no matter who you choose I think, you just have to do the math, and if good times exceeds the bad, it's worth it to me.
"My Posession?" you mean I have a "taken" sign on my forehead? I've always thought it was "short hair, sodd off!"
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