confession among the opinion
This is what I told this guy I know online and have been pinning for several months. I got up the courage to toss in my own confession but also to say what needs to be said. I care about him and anyone who strings another human along w/o letting them go is full of shit. She is stupid to give up a good man, good looking, loving and devoted, you know. I've been praying for someone like that. Anyway, here's my stuff; may the Gods give him guidance during this trying time.
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BM (burning man) blues
Aw man, you are gonna hate me for saying this but I have to say it. Short of telling you, this lady does not want you but is too scared to say so. Maybe there is love there, I don't know but for what I've heard/read its more like fear keeping her from being truthful to herself; to you. I for one think she is wacked outta her mind for not totally being into you. For all the reason you've told me and what I read in the thread, Bryan you can give so much more to someone who would want that instead of to someone who doesn't.
If I was her being honest to myself (and seriously, I wish I was, B 'cause you sound so awesome and committed to making things work-something I've only had a glimse of from my ex. And yes I do kinda have a crush on you), I'd do the right thing and tell you goodbye so you could start mourning then move on.
That is truely up to you, my friend. How long do you want your heart to ache? How much more emotional rollercoastering can you handle? Do you really want to keep doing this when you are 46? 47?
Think about you for a change, Bryan. You do matter; your own happiness is as important as hers. I wish these strength for this trying time.
That is all I have to say. Cheers, mate.
K
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BM (burning man) blues
Aw man, you are gonna hate me for saying this but I have to say it. Short of telling you, this lady does not want you but is too scared to say so. Maybe there is love there, I don't know but for what I've heard/read its more like fear keeping her from being truthful to herself; to you. I for one think she is wacked outta her mind for not totally being into you. For all the reason you've told me and what I read in the thread, Bryan you can give so much more to someone who would want that instead of to someone who doesn't.
If I was her being honest to myself (and seriously, I wish I was, B 'cause you sound so awesome and committed to making things work-something I've only had a glimse of from my ex. And yes I do kinda have a crush on you), I'd do the right thing and tell you goodbye so you could start mourning then move on.
That is truely up to you, my friend. How long do you want your heart to ache? How much more emotional rollercoastering can you handle? Do you really want to keep doing this when you are 46? 47?
Think about you for a change, Bryan. You do matter; your own happiness is as important as hers. I wish these strength for this trying time.
That is all I have to say. Cheers, mate.
K