Oct 11, 2010 22:36
“他唯一做了件不该做的事:他爱上了一个不该爱的人,有了一段在人世间被看作荒谬、无耻、堕落的感情,可这份感情是纯洁的、无辜的、永恒的。”-陈捍东 《蓝宇》
Finally finished reading 《蓝宇》. Apart from the numerous explicit sex scenes being so descriptive, I can totally feel the love between the two men.
Prolly it is because I'm quite a yaoi or BL(boys love) fan, I've watched quite a lot of homosexual films and anime alike, and I do think that the person didn't choose to be gay. He just happens to fall in love with a person, and that person is a man.
I've watched a few episodes of Queer as Folk. It really saddens me that there are so many people in world that can't accept homosexuality. Hell, people even try to convert them back to straight. How is that even possible if it is not by choice? Ignorant people.
Oh, and I remember there's a dialogue that goes like, "don't ask 'are you?' just say 'i know.'" This is from a mum of a gay (who has come out) to another mum who is suspecting that her child is gay. I think support from families are really important. Because if your family cannot even begin to accept you, how is he/she going to face the society in the future?
I just hope the world has less homophobes and be more open to them. They are human like us too, what makes the rest of the world think that they are more superior than homosexual?
Right, just my 2 cents. I'm still very sad that 蓝宇 died. T.T
my 2 cents,
food for thought