Same field different BS
So this week I am doing payroll at work because sister is on her honeymoon, not a big deal when it is basic and every thing runs smoothly.
This week has been horrendous though because I've run into so many problems and because I spent half the day on payroll I can't even get my own work done. Plus I get yelled at for asking questions about different steps. I'm sorry I don't do payroll regularly, I am not familiar with the program and Sister didn't really think ahead to maybe show me some of the things I may need to know or even took the time to redo the individual client instruction sheets so they are detailed and correct (she did laugh that I was stuck with a week and half of payroll that includes basically every payroll client we do)
The other thing that pushed me over the edge today is that my mother just called the office to see if I paid S or S's mother for the bridal shower expenses and when I said not yet she flipped out at me. I'm sorry I've been a bit busy with other things and S only told me how much I owed them this weekend, I asked her a few weeks back when I had some extra money (which then went to making extra CC payments because S didn't deem fit to respond to me).
It's the beginning of the month and I have other higher priority bills that need to be paid first so S will have to wait until I deposit my paycheck and am sure that my important bills clear first, then I can pay her.
Mother also doesn't want me to include the ink we purchased for them to print the invitations and stuff. I purchased it at the office but I am planning to write Dad the check for $75 for the damn ink and I'm sure that since we agreed to split the costs of the whole damn party they made sure to include every little piece of confetti and everything they bought. How is it fair that I can't include that cost when they can include everything they bought.
Even then, why the hell is Mother involved in this? If she wants them paid now she can pay them herself because a few days shouldn't be a big deal and I never wanted to be maid of honor and have to throw the party to begin with.
It's shit like this that really makes me regret working for my father. If I worked anywhere else I at least would not have to deal with her BS phone calls that can wait until after work! And even then my owing someone money is none of her damn business!
I'm sure if I actually book going to TFcon this year (which I would love to do) she will start making all kinds of comments about how I spend/waste my money and how can I afford a trip when I say I have no money (maybe I have no money because I am trying to save it to go on my little trips). I really don't appreciate her comments because it essentially takes the few excursions and joys I have and ruins them. I wind up feeling bad about my trips like I don't deserve to go do fun things or meet people with similar interests and I'm just tired of it.