Jul 18, 2005 18:43
It's strange to see how much people you don't talk to for such a short period of time change. And It's even more strange when you can feel them changing even when you haven't spoken or had any contact with them recently. Some of them, however, have changed into complete assholes though, so no biggie I'm not communicating with them, right?
Wrong. I think.
Because the truth is, I'm uncertain if they're the asshole or if I am. What started the silence in the first place? Me? Or You? And the only way to find out is, or at least WAS, to communicate. However, some silences go too far to ever be changed.
I think this summer, I'm learning a skill incredibly important to me. I'll use this one for the rest of my years, may they be few or plenty.
The lesson?
Acceptance.
Not to mention communication and truth.