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[kadeegirl24]

This is my tribute to the nice girls. To the nice girls who are overlooked, who become friends and nothing more, who spend hours fixating upon their looks and their personalities and their actions because it must be they that are doing something wrong. This is for the girls who don't give it up on the first date, who don't want to play mind games,

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Wow!....

[schadband]

...Katy, that was by far some of the most compelling and articulate writing on the subject of relationship frustration I think I have ever laid eyes on. Firstly, I'll be the first to admit, on behalf of my sex, yes, most guys are pigs. I am sorry to admit it, but while most of us are tired of getting our hearts broken time and time again by the very girls we know we shouldn't be chasing after, we continue to do so for no real reason other then it's just in the male nature to want what we can't have and men are scum. For revealing this to you I am in danger of having my membership card to the boys club taken away for revealing secrets that we as members of the XY chromosone carriers have tried to keep secret for centuries. Men instinctivly go after the wrong sort of girl, even though we know better, and we wonder why we get our hearts broken. But, like I've always said, there's execptions to every rule, that includes the rules of nature. There do exist in this world a group of guys that feel the exact same way that you do toward the opposite sex. If you were to replace the words "to the girls" and "most men" and switch them around to their respective opposites you've have the way that a lot of men feel. Know these fews important details: some guys have made mistakes, but don't intentually chase after girls that will break our hearts. You made mention of nice girls in diguise, well sometimes men have seen what they thought was a sheep in wolf's clothing and it just turned out the be a wolf. Secondly, not all men are after the comfort of a one night stand, some of us actually want to keep ourselves for the women we intend to marry. There are plenty of guys out there who wouldn't trade their virginity for a night with even the most gorgous women, because they've made a commitment to a higher power for the sake of love. Thirdly, don't become biiter toward men because a couple of jerks messed with your head and treated you like they weren't raised with any manners. Some men simply missed out on the day they were supposed to learn how to treat a lady. You are everything you discribed in your writing.( Wonder, Smart, Beautiful, Loyal) Don't let a couple of mindless dipshits get you down about how much you have to offer. Take care of yourself and remember that you are someone who deserves to be and more then likely will be happy with a wonder person. Now, just be patient and find him. Take care. Later.