I'm sorry Danielle. It's so hard, especially when you know that working things out and fighting through things is going to get in the way of work and school and other things that you need to do and feel so much more productive then battling it out with someone you love for hours. But it's worth it. If you really do love each other then what matters in the long run? That you took the time out and made it work? Or that you got an A instead of a B on that paper? If he's important to you, it's so crucial just to forgive forget make up and move on. If he's worth it then you deserve to be happy and though I don't know what your problems actually are, I know that with Andrey and I, we've been going through really important stressful 'problems' and even with the super important ones, we know that our love is worth more than crying over it.
Another thing, that Andrey and I are also working on, is focusing on making other friends, other connections other people, so that when you can't be there for each other, when you need time apart, when you ARE apart, when you need someone to just cry with and it can't be your bestfriend/boyfriend, you'll have someone that will listen to you and get you all pepped up and ready to go work things out with your boyfriend.
If you need someone, and you don't have someone at school, call me, call Tessa, call Amanda, call any of us and one of us will be there to listen to all your problems and help you work them out in your head so you can see what really matters.
If you love him it's worth it, remember. And it's ALWAYS okay to take some time apart. Andrey and I have actually grown SO MUCH closer during and after our times "apart". We communicate so much better and we really try to understand one another and we know what's important.
It's so hard, especially when you know that working things out and fighting through things is going to get in the way of work and school and other things that you need to do and feel so much more productive then battling it out with someone you love for hours. But it's worth it. If you really do love each other then what matters in the long run? That you took the time out and made it work? Or that you got an A instead of a B on that paper? If he's important to you, it's so crucial just to forgive forget make up and move on. If he's worth it then you deserve to be happy and though I don't know what your problems actually are, I know that with Andrey and I, we've been going through really important stressful 'problems' and even with the super important ones, we know that our love is worth more than crying over it.
Another thing, that Andrey and I are also working on, is focusing on making other friends, other connections other people, so that when you can't be there for each other, when you need time apart, when you ARE apart, when you need someone to just cry with and it can't be your bestfriend/boyfriend, you'll have someone that will listen to you and get you all pepped up and ready to go work things out with your boyfriend.
If you need someone, and you don't have someone at school, call me, call Tessa, call Amanda, call any of us and one of us will be there to listen to all your problems and help you work them out in your head so you can see what really matters.
If you love him it's worth it, remember. And it's ALWAYS okay to take some time apart. Andrey and I have actually grown SO MUCH closer during and after our times "apart". We communicate so much better and we really try to understand one another and we know what's important.
Love you, call me,
Kate
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