i just came across this as a random search (im at work and bored as hell and it's 402am!).
you have no idea how much i can relate to your post re alex (not the smoking part cause i've just come back from a ciggie break where i sucked down 3 bad boys, but you probably don't want to hear that!!). i was with this guy for 2 years, and now 1 year post-break up we're still awkward. i think cold turkey is the only answer, and stick to it until you no longer have any feelings. one thing that my ex and i both agree has been our downfall is that we *think* we are ready to be friends, but being friends leads to more feelings that have been surpressed rather than dealt with completely. does that make sense?
also, with regard to other males in your life - all i can tell you is that rebound is BAD. like, that person will always be your rebound, regardless of what you think may be the case. take a year off boys/relationships. it's lonely and it's hard, but at least it's giving you future parter a chance at having a fresh relationship with YOU, not a damaged and broken version of you.
damn i sound preachy. what a cool random journal to come up with though.
sorry if i seem rude and intrusive. i have friended you, but if you wish i shall remove you.
thankyou, being just friends is tough, and now i have to witness him being in a new relationship and that hurts more than anything... And the whole no guys at all thing, i dont know if i can handle that, i admire the thought but i hate being alone, its one of the worst things i can imagine... my greatest fear. Granted i have become closer to alot of my friends but i think that is just making up for all the friends i have lost thru this break up, his friends. I have realized that we are not getting back together and now i have so much to give someone, and i'm missing so much from someone, anyone... I'm really not used to it... Blah blah blah... So I recomend you see closer and i think its awesome that you found me randomly... I think the friend thing is cool... thankyou
i just came across this as a random search (im at work and bored as hell and it's 402am!).
you have no idea how much i can relate to your post re alex (not the smoking part cause i've just come back from a ciggie break where i sucked down 3 bad boys, but you probably don't want to hear that!!). i was with this guy for 2 years, and now 1 year post-break up we're still awkward. i think cold turkey is the only answer, and stick to it until you no longer have any feelings. one thing that my ex and i both agree has been our downfall is that we *think* we are ready to be friends, but being friends leads to more feelings that have been surpressed rather than dealt with completely. does that make sense?
also, with regard to other males in your life - all i can tell you is that rebound is BAD. like, that person will always be your rebound, regardless of what you think may be the case. take a year off boys/relationships. it's lonely and it's hard, but at least it's giving you future parter a chance at having a fresh relationship with YOU, not a damaged and broken version of you.
damn i sound preachy. what a cool random journal to come up with though.
sorry if i seem rude and intrusive. i have friended you, but if you wish i shall remove you.
regards,
grace
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