That poll was hard. Either decision sounds difficult. If you give it to her "whenever" then it'll seem careless, and if you give it to her Christmas it'll hurt more.
My thoughts were similar (of course). You want it to make her happy, not send her into depression. I think a compromise is in order... take her aside in a good moment, give it to her when you can be with her for hugs, etc... but not ON Christmas.
Then again, what do I know... I'm just a slimey alien cephalopod. ;)
Well, the poll showed I should aim for XMas. But I am thinking that I will not do it during the "gift giving" portion of the evening. I am thinking that I will preface it with "I found this while I was going through some old albums and I thought you should have it. I hope it doesnt make you sad, but its rightfully yours, so here you go".
The simple fact is I may just not get up there to see her before XMas night.
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Then again, what do I know... I'm just a slimey alien cephalopod. ;)
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The simple fact is I may just not get up there to see her before XMas night.
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