2011. Yup...
So there I was, counting down for new years...
NO WAIT! I WAS ASLEEP IN BED BY 10 PM!!
Probably the best decision I've made in a long time, especially after my Christmas. Lets break it down.
Christmas: Eh. Randy worked Christmas Eve, so by the time he got home, we loaded the car drove the 3.5 hours to his mom's house, and unloaded, it was 4 AM. I didn't go to bed, stayed up, and got sweet presents. His mom's gifts were not thought out, but his Aunts and Uncles were, and I was more than okay with that. Then, as soon as the gifts were exchanged, we looked outside.
"Oh hey snow, what's up? Let's turn on the TV and see how much we'll get...14 inches! Hooray White Christmas!"
No. Fuck that. I am from California. When it snowed, class stopped and everyone ran outside to see this mythical snow. I was good with that. I took a snow trip in 8th grade band class. It only took me that one day to realize snow is a product of the devil. No, you say? How about the fact that the end result was being SNOWED IN A HOUSE WITH 17 PEOPLE FOR THREE DAYS?!?!! I love Randy's family, but whoa. That was some intense shit. Nooo thanks.
Note: Randy got me a Coach wallet, a digital camera, a Sinatra/Basie CD and a 49ers steering wheel cover. Other highlights include a cheetah coffee mug and a shower radio. Win.
Work: I have started my work cycle, but it was messed up for the holidays so I ended up working a long time in a row. I didn't get to have down time with Randy for about two weeks. Also, I really dislike the people I work with. No one follows the rules and everyone is lazy. It's like the Wild Wild West. It is going to be VERY hard to adjust, but hopefully I'll manage. My new supervisor and flight chief are also new to the base, so hopefully they'll change things.
Health: Not so good. ***I AM ABOUT TO TALK ABOUT FEMININE ISSUES. AVOID IF SQUEAMISH / A MAN***
I got the Depo shot in June of 2010. I have been bleeding ever since. It started as spotting, but the last month has been a full blown period. I saw the docs today and got a bunch of blood work done. I'm also scheduled for an ultrasound to look for cysts, etc. Obviously this has been messing with my sex life and gym routine. I've been getting out of shape, gaining weight, and now have pain pills to pop everyday courtesy of the hospital. None of these things are good or make me happy in any way, shape or form. I'll know more in a few days.
Randy: We had to have a serious talk a few days ago which turned into a fight. Our first fight I guess if you want to call it that. We were in the middle of the talk and I said something and he snorted in a "Yeah right" sort of way. I said "Excuse me...?!?" very angry and halfway through my sentence, he laughed.
*pause*
NOT OKAY. I took a shower to not talk to him, came to bed, finished the talk and we went to bed angry. The cause of everything is he has stopped interacting. He doesn't share his thoughts or opinions anymore. Yes dear, no dear, whatever you want dear. I hope the problem is resolved, because that is NOT the kind of person I want to be in a relationship with. He says it's from stress and the move, but I think the fact that I'm paying rent makes him feel like it's a roommate situation. I just want him to finish school (which he is THANK GOD) and then he can pay half. I don't know. Hopefully he gets out of his funk and we can live happily ever after.
Misc.: I have just now gotten back on top financially and will be replenishing my savings account accordingly. I am VERY excited by this development, and only hope that nothing sneaks up on me in the next few months so I can properly save. Also, going back to school is proving to be a HUGE disaster. I can't get my enrollment right and it's pretty disheartening. I just wanna learn, damn it!
Okay, that's really all the main points for now. Hopefully, 2011 starts on a good note. Yay!