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jungle_mag

TMI-Ness

Apr 13, 2009 11:23

( Unless you're into reading about my personal life, feel free to skip this post )

life, mr. meggie, tmi

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mingsmommy April 13 2009, 16:40:28 UTC

First, *hugs ( ... )

rainbowjumpsuit April 13 2009, 16:44:33 UTC

Sorry to butt-in. I just saw this bit you wrote: 1. Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?

and I've been having some relationship issues also and it just really makes a lot of damn sense. Thanks for that.

mingsmommy April 13 2009, 17:26:39 UTC

That wonderful quote came from Dr. Gerald Jampolsky, one of my heroes.

I did a whole riff on the concept here about how a lot of times when we fight it's more about being right than what's really wrong. The concept has really stopped me from ruining a lot of relationships.

jungle_mag April 13 2009, 17:19:52 UTC

Thank you so much for the advice. I know that I can always count on you to give a heartfelt response that genuinely tries to solve the problem.

You are awesome, you really are.

2. Raise your level of acceptance and lower your level of expectation.

I really needed to see that. Again, thank you.

cabooklover June 17 2009, 18:20:57 UTC

Oh my, this is why I will never, ever get married. Because I *always* want to be right. And I am very happy when I am right!

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