Ive just come up with something useful!!
So heres a tip for anyone that works in IT
Ever bent a pin in a VGA cable etc.
What do you use to straighten it? probably what ever is handy a screwdriver or some needle nose pliers maybe.
But there is a tool that will be to hand if you have a female partner.
1/ Get one of these ^ !
2/ peel of the cotton wool and you will be left with a hollow tube.
3/ Put the tube onto the bent pin and you should now be able to straghten it without bending the other pins!!!