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10. When dealing with girls never date a "friend of a friend" unless you get to know both girls REALLY well and it's cool with both of them.
9. Never ask someone out by having your friend talk to her (this just doesn't work, especially in highschool). *ladies if a guy you REALLY like has his friend ask you out for him, decline immediatley any guy that doesn't have the guts to ask you out in person is not worth your time.
8. If a girl looks fabulous but is late for a date or event never say "try and be on time by spending less time on your hair next time" that is one sure way to end the evening.
7. If you know two girls that are friends, never compliment one of them in front of the other without saying something equally as meaningful to the other. (Trust me, you're just asking for trouble)
6. If you think it's impossible that some girl could ever like you....think again, anything's possible.
5. Don't assume ANYTHING, it's most likely not true.
4. If you want to maintain a good relationship with your female friends, don't neglect them! Girls take things very personally, so don't forget to email or call or whatever.
3. Never tell a girl you love her unless you're fairly serious about your relationship (whether it's a friendship or a dating relationship). This may seem a little extreme, but the words I love you will stick in the mind of your girl for a long time. If you want to do her a favor don't say "I love you" when you've been going out for 3 days. The truth is that you can't possibly love her with all that you are in that short amount of time. Seriously, if you really love her, show her through your actions, don't say it with your words. Those 3 little words can haunt a girl for the rest of her life.
2. Be completly honest and open with each other. This may seem simple, but there are far to many couples that are afraid to show their real thoughts and feelings to each other. You don't have to be stupid, but if your relationship is semi-serious share your deep thoughts and feelings with your bf or gf, relationships involve risk. Sometimes you have to be a little bit vulnerable, just make sure you're both on the same page.
1. Don't take advantage of your girl! This is number one. It works both ways, but I'm speaking to the guys right now. Don't play with her heart. Honestly, where will that get you in the long run? Will it make either of you better or wiser? No. Playing with emotions is not a game, it's serious and can hurt deeply. If you have a girl that is ready to pour her heart and mind into your life make sure that you're ready for that kind of a relationship before you break her heart. Don't lead her to believe that you'll be together forever if you only want to be friends! Don't let her take care of your emotional needs without giving back. And don't take advantage of her physically NO MATTER WHAT!
Okay, that is the end of the list, for anyone that's interested!
9. Never ask someone out by having your friend talk to her (this just doesn't work, especially in highschool). *ladies if a guy you REALLY like has his friend ask you out for him, decline immediatley any guy that doesn't have the guts to ask you out in person is not worth your time.
8. If a girl looks fabulous but is late for a date or event never say "try and be on time by spending less time on your hair next time" that is one sure way to end the evening.
7. If you know two girls that are friends, never compliment one of them in front of the other without saying something equally as meaningful to the other. (Trust me, you're just asking for trouble)
6. If you think it's impossible that some girl could ever like you....think again, anything's possible.
5. Don't assume ANYTHING, it's most likely not true.
4. If you want to maintain a good relationship with your female friends, don't neglect them! Girls take things very personally, so don't forget to email or call or whatever.
3. Never tell a girl you love her unless you're fairly serious about your relationship (whether it's a friendship or a dating relationship). This may seem a little extreme, but the words I love you will stick in the mind of your girl for a long time. If you want to do her a favor don't say "I love you" when you've been going out for 3 days. The truth is that you can't possibly love her with all that you are in that short amount of time. Seriously, if you really love her, show her through your actions, don't say it with your words. Those 3 little words can haunt a girl for the rest of her life.
2. Be completly honest and open with each other. This may seem simple, but there are far to many couples that are afraid to show their real thoughts and feelings to each other. You don't have to be stupid, but if your relationship is semi-serious share your deep thoughts and feelings with your bf or gf, relationships involve risk. Sometimes you have to be a little bit vulnerable, just make sure you're both on the same page.
1. Don't take advantage of your girl! This is number one. It works both ways, but I'm speaking to the guys right now. Don't play with her heart. Honestly, where will that get you in the long run? Will it make either of you better or wiser? No. Playing with emotions is not a game, it's serious and can hurt deeply. If you have a girl that is ready to pour her heart and mind into your life make sure that you're ready for that kind of a relationship before you break her heart. Don't lead her to believe that you'll be together forever if you only want to be friends! Don't let her take care of your emotional needs without giving back. And don't take advantage of her physically NO MATTER WHAT!
Okay, that is the end of the list, for anyone that's interested!