and yes. scott. you win. i admit that i'm needy.
you lift it. you lift and lift and lift and then you drop it. it's not that you do it on purpose really...it's more that you're clumsy and you don't know that you're going to drop it. but your hands release a little and you do. you drop it. think of it like your egg pyramid. in your mind you think it will be ok, that everything is just fine...if the outside shell is strong enough then it's real shell will be fine. but it tilts, and breaks. and your logical thinking of what should be by all other cases, just doesn't go that way. because the egg that you are trying to keep safe is different.