Observational Ponderings.
Now that I have had a couple relationships, I have started to notice an unusual trend in myself.
The physical traits I got for in girls, like what I find visually attractive. Has a tendency of changing depending on the girl I fancy at the time. This isn't just for the body shape type ideas, but it seems to flow into style and dress sense.
Lets take it back some. *cue wobbly flashback visual effects*
Back in high school I had a thing for a girl. She had, say medium boobs, big hips, bug bum, and plenty of flesh. And thats what I thought I liked, and thats what I looked for.
That was until I met a girl some years after high school. This girl, however, was very slender. She has small boobs, small hips, in fact she once joked she didn't even have an ass at all. But I was entranced with her. So what I liked changed to that. It created a bit of an interest for me in Asian girls as they often have very small slender frames. Id look at girls in the street and the slender ones with small boobs. always caught my eye more. Both those girls prior didn't really have anything in the way of an extravagant dress sense. So I was tended to avoid the girls who seemed to 'overdress' Nothing could beat a simple t-shit and pants.
Now, bring forward till my most recent girlfriend. And we have a complete change back to what I had in high school. Larger fleshy frame with big hips, big bum, and big boobs. She also often dressed up in extravagant ways with a gothic/lolita twist. Odd thing is, I don't fancy her anymore, but I DO fancy that look/style. Girls in the street that have larger frames with big boobs interest me. And for the first time in my life I have interest in gothic/lolita type fashions (on girls at least). My recent ex sometimes complained that I didn't find her attractive because in the beginning (before we fancied each other) I told her I had a thing for small framed girls. But my taste changed to match what she was. In fact I specifically remember looking at pics of her that she sent me and at first not really knowing what I thought of them. But later finding them more and more attractive.
What what does this mean? I don't know really. Maybe I don't have any tastes at all in the terms of what kind of girls I find attractive. I KNOW a girl can look more/less attractive depending on how she behaves and what she does. But I wonder if that changes too? If it does, I haven't noticed.
Is anyone else this way, or are you tastes more static? This isn't a question just for the guys either, what do you girls think?
The physical traits I got for in girls, like what I find visually attractive. Has a tendency of changing depending on the girl I fancy at the time. This isn't just for the body shape type ideas, but it seems to flow into style and dress sense.
Lets take it back some. *cue wobbly flashback visual effects*
Back in high school I had a thing for a girl. She had, say medium boobs, big hips, bug bum, and plenty of flesh. And thats what I thought I liked, and thats what I looked for.
That was until I met a girl some years after high school. This girl, however, was very slender. She has small boobs, small hips, in fact she once joked she didn't even have an ass at all. But I was entranced with her. So what I liked changed to that. It created a bit of an interest for me in Asian girls as they often have very small slender frames. Id look at girls in the street and the slender ones with small boobs. always caught my eye more. Both those girls prior didn't really have anything in the way of an extravagant dress sense. So I was tended to avoid the girls who seemed to 'overdress' Nothing could beat a simple t-shit and pants.
Now, bring forward till my most recent girlfriend. And we have a complete change back to what I had in high school. Larger fleshy frame with big hips, big bum, and big boobs. She also often dressed up in extravagant ways with a gothic/lolita twist. Odd thing is, I don't fancy her anymore, but I DO fancy that look/style. Girls in the street that have larger frames with big boobs interest me. And for the first time in my life I have interest in gothic/lolita type fashions (on girls at least). My recent ex sometimes complained that I didn't find her attractive because in the beginning (before we fancied each other) I told her I had a thing for small framed girls. But my taste changed to match what she was. In fact I specifically remember looking at pics of her that she sent me and at first not really knowing what I thought of them. But later finding them more and more attractive.
What what does this mean? I don't know really. Maybe I don't have any tastes at all in the terms of what kind of girls I find attractive. I KNOW a girl can look more/less attractive depending on how she behaves and what she does. But I wonder if that changes too? If it does, I haven't noticed.
Is anyone else this way, or are you tastes more static? This isn't a question just for the guys either, what do you girls think?