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News: OMG math quiz was Amazing.. HARD WORK PAYS OFF... i am juz soo happy coz i've been doin bad at everything lately! i work hard and then do bad lolz.. i thot i'd fail math too.. but its was ok! *jumpz* i guesss i was too stressed.
but the other side of my life is not so gud.. i dunno why some people have to live on the 7th cloud.. i mean don't they get lonely up there... COME BAK TO EARTH.. omg
scenario:
you go around campus and see posters about violence, both physical and emotional... emotional violence? yep!
its when one is emotionally put down, in one way or the other, it hurts juz as much.... maybe even more. you read about indications of when your "partner" does not love you in the sense of tru love. when he repeatedly asks of you what he knows you do not want to give/do, when he usues emotional blackmail, when there are ultimatums, when there are threats of a fight.
you read all this stuff and think yea thats never happening to me, and then one day you realize thats exactly whats happening. but you dont do anything about it, why? i guess because you'r in denial and dont wanna believe that the person you adore cud do that to you.
you start to hate what the person is doing, but all you do is wish that he changes. then you read in other places that guys should not be expected to change. because very few do and its gradual, and its hardly ever just for one gal.
you read about what hints you should look for if your guy has been unfaithful. then when you answer to most but one questions as yes, you throw away the magazine thinking that its juz a piece of crap.
you can't believe that you are one of those girls who takes shit from guyz... one of those girls you criticized and did not understand when you were not yourself in that position. you cant believe that you are not strong...
question:
what would you do in this situation?