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Things I said that I shouldn't have in my life... This is not a regret not but to share that after one mistake, we should not lose the lesson that goes with it...
Things I learned that I shouldn't have said in my life….
1. I once been with someone and I became so dependent to the relationship that when the time we have to let go… I even put myself into the position to beg the person not to leave me… I realized how pathetic I was… I regret the day I showed someone how insignificant I think of myself. Lesson I learned, never beg someone to love you. Love is something we cannot control and I have to love myself first to be loved. And that's what I am doing right now…
2. Once I asked a friend of mine if there is something wrong with me that I always meet the wrong guy. I always question myself being not enough, not pretty enough, not nice enough, not sexy enough. Another pathetic gesture…. I know.. I know…. Well I learned that this is not always about me…. So when I recently mistakenly asked someone again the same question, I snapped and stopped myself. I told myself, it’s not me because it takes two to tango.
3. One time at work, I was so nervous talking to my boss sister during a plant visit. I was still new then from my company and she asked me this technical question about the product that I haven’t fully familiarize myself. So I assumed and said a figure, which I am not ever sure about. She was surprised on my answer but didn't say anymore more… I put down myself for days when I realized what a mistake I did… I learned that the answer I gave it much exaggerated and very incorrect. Lesson learn is not to always try to impress people and just admit when you don't know anything about a topic being discussed or something being asked from you. That makes us human not to know everything. Not because I have a BA, doesn't mean I am Einstein…. Hehehehe. So now, when I am asked about something I don't know. I am blunt to speak out I don't know… but I am willing to check and learn about it if necessary for me to do so.
I believe that compared how I was two or three years ago, I am much better on picking the words I have to say.. knowing when things should be said or when it should not be spoken out. Though my friends believe otherwise, since they say I am still very tactless.
WORDS can make or break a relationship. I try not saying anything I will regret afterwards…
Things I learned that I shouldn't have said in my life….
1. I once been with someone and I became so dependent to the relationship that when the time we have to let go… I even put myself into the position to beg the person not to leave me… I realized how pathetic I was… I regret the day I showed someone how insignificant I think of myself. Lesson I learned, never beg someone to love you. Love is something we cannot control and I have to love myself first to be loved. And that's what I am doing right now…
2. Once I asked a friend of mine if there is something wrong with me that I always meet the wrong guy. I always question myself being not enough, not pretty enough, not nice enough, not sexy enough. Another pathetic gesture…. I know.. I know…. Well I learned that this is not always about me…. So when I recently mistakenly asked someone again the same question, I snapped and stopped myself. I told myself, it’s not me because it takes two to tango.
3. One time at work, I was so nervous talking to my boss sister during a plant visit. I was still new then from my company and she asked me this technical question about the product that I haven’t fully familiarize myself. So I assumed and said a figure, which I am not ever sure about. She was surprised on my answer but didn't say anymore more… I put down myself for days when I realized what a mistake I did… I learned that the answer I gave it much exaggerated and very incorrect. Lesson learn is not to always try to impress people and just admit when you don't know anything about a topic being discussed or something being asked from you. That makes us human not to know everything. Not because I have a BA, doesn't mean I am Einstein…. Hehehehe. So now, when I am asked about something I don't know. I am blunt to speak out I don't know… but I am willing to check and learn about it if necessary for me to do so.
I believe that compared how I was two or three years ago, I am much better on picking the words I have to say.. knowing when things should be said or when it should not be spoken out. Though my friends believe otherwise, since they say I am still very tactless.
WORDS can make or break a relationship. I try not saying anything I will regret afterwards…