update
Ok so my dad has chosen to only have a relationship with his "daughter J*****". He is unwilling to use my name and has basically said so long! I am hoping he will come around eventually.
On the plus side, my voice has changed a bit, so much so that when my mom called the other day, she starts freaking out and tells me "OMG you sound like a man!"
I think I laughed for about two days on that. I did remind her that was the point, she is totally cool and very supportive. We just don't talk often so it was a big surprise to her. She even offered to help pay for my bottom surgery in a couple years when she gets some settlement. I am not expecting that to happen but it would be awesome.
Still trying to get all the paperwork done and sent out to every office that ever sent me a bill. Not too much discrimination, but a bit.
Elle is moving in soon. We have 40 days to plan the wall color, furniture arrangements and moving trucks. I am soo happy with life. I have had so much energy since starting T. I have been running about 10-15 miles a week. I am not losing ANY weight, I am gaining a lot of muscle though. I have been working my arms and abs. So far my gut looks a bit bigger as my fat redistributes to that area. My legs and arms are getting stronger.
It sucks but I don't pass yet. BOOBs, yep BOOBS get in the way of passing. Surgery date to be determined, but I am aiming for August. Maybe I will get some facial hair by then so when I come back to work I can get more than one SIR per day. That would be great. MAM, HONEY, DEAR and my least favorite MISSY are soooo old.