Stop killing An Cafe!

[pinkvegetable]

I'm so glad I found this community. My god.
A few weeks ago, I was playing hangman with my friends because we had nothing else to do, for our homeroom teacher was absent and we weren't changing classes. Anyway, my word was, "L.O.V.E. NYAPPY" because my friends told me to make it easy, and this one girl, she's a total wannabe, was like, "OH! I know

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[pinkvegetable]

I'm sorry, but I guess this kind of situation is more... I don't know what the word for it, but I guess you'd understand better, about how I feel about this person if you knew her in real life.

Maybe I should't have said she was a disgrace, however it does make me really angry, because she only likes k-pop, j-rock, and screamo/alternative/blahblahblah because her sister does. When she met me she started getting more into it, especially An Cafe, because they were my favorite band, I had them all over my notebook and everything.

I don't know, maybe it's just me, but I don't appreciate that she likes something only because of the influence of her older sister and I. I really think that if she didn't befriend me, she would have continued to listen to only the An Cafe songs her sister listened to, because I know that she definately ONLY knows of the GazettE songs that are on her sister's Zune. My apologies for seeming like such a bitch, though. Not being sarcastic either. I get that way sometimes when I'm angry. But some of the things she does really pisses me off.

[chixchixconx]

I guess I can kind of understand your not liking her, but it seemed like you were being the all knowing elitest that ruins any ones fandom, and ruin it for the fans.

Since I don't know her, I can't say you're being mean for no reason or attacking her. So don't take this as me sticking up for her and attacking you.

I used to listen to nothing but rap, until I got closer to my sister and started going to shows with her, she got me into screamo, bro-core and all that good american undergournd junk but I found jrock on my own and it remains my thing. I can't understand you being mad at her for liking what her sister or you likes.

She doesn't have to know a bands whole discography to be a true fan, if she would have stayed listening to the same Gazette and An Cafe songs that's fine. We don't all have to know about 2359834587935873 different bands to enjoy jrock or any genre of music for that matter.

[pinkvegetable]

I see why you're upset at me for being angry at her for liking what her sister likes. Trust me, I have an older sister, as well, and I used to copy her all the time. After I had someone do that to me, I stopped doing it to my sister and just started liking what I truly liked. Because I was only copying her to fit in. I really didn't enjoy any of the things she liked.

I see that you do take a liking to music that your sister listens to, but I'm upset because she doesn't even like half of the things she put on her MP3 player, which is mostly made up of songs that she got from her sister.

It's that, I guess, ermm.. Like. She only acts like she likes those things because her sister likes them. She doesn't really like them at all. She did get DBSK from her sister, which is probably the only music she likes.. I don't know if I'm making sense or not. I keep saying different things in each comment, but I don't explain enough when I say something....

[chixchixconx]

I think I see what you're saying. With me I truly liked what my sister liked and went to shows and bought the CDs because I liked it not because I wanted to fit in with my sister and her stupid friends. But this girl is only trying to fit in, jrock and all that stuff maybe isn't her thing but she acts like it is so she can be liked.

It's classic teen age girl some of us go through that "please like me!" stage and some don't it can be annoying but getting mad her isn't going to make her feel any better about herself. She likes DBSK, maybe you should try to swing her more towards them show her the DBSK comm, or something. That will give her something that's hers that wont annoy you. But that's only if you're interested in helping her.

[pinkvegetable]

I guess you're right. I'm glad I posted this rant, I actually learned something today.. You see, my sister is actually one of the most hated girls in her high school. She's a senior, and I'm in 8th grade, but I'm going to the high school she went to and I don't want to take after her. So I'm really glad I learned something. I don't want to be hated or seem like a detestable person.

But I think she is so into DBSK I can't swing her towards them any closer.. I actually don't like DBSK, it's not my.. kind of music, I guess you would say. So I have nothing that I know about it. I'd love to let her get into something else, but I can't think of anything that truly enjoy. She might only like it because I suggested it to her...