Feb 27, 2006 08:24
I've decided. Weddings aren't complicated. Other people make them complicated. And the next time I hear my mother say ANYTHING to ANYONE about how she's not sure it's the right time, I swear I'm just going to elope. And if that stupid reverend insists on marriage counseling, I'll find someone else. I don't want to be counseled by her, for one, but I have an even better reason. My fiancee will be in for ONE weekend before the wedding and that won't be until sometime in July and I sure as hell am not spending the freaking entire weekend in couseling. I have other wedding plans to do. I'm not against counseling, but it has to be something that works for a military schedule. And she shuddered when I mentioned phones or webcams. The offer counseling on base, I'll be in to visit Tucker a few times and we'll get counseled there. AND if his mother says he really wants something when I know for a fact he's indifferent, I'll just leave her out of all planning. He doesn't care if we get married in that church or by that preacher. In fact, he'd almost rather not have that preacher.