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Hayes went to Harvard Law School and then made a name for himself as a successful criminal defense lawyer in Cincinnati. There he married Lucy Ware Webb. Lucy advocated temperance and abolition, and was a strong Methodist who placed more emphasis on good works than on being 'born again.' Without nagging, she influenced her husband. After marriage he became a stronger antislavery advocate and a teetotaler following his move to the White House, and he regularly attended religious services with Lucy, though he never joined a church."
Because obviously nagging is the main way that women influence people in the realm of social and religious values.
*Thanks,
queen_elvis for supplying the phrase and
jcreed for giving me the idea to appropriate it.