u r not marriage material

[journalwk]

got in a fight w/ my ex-girlf, and den got in a fight w/

http://www.livejournal.com/users/lostcosmonaut/103746.html?thread=3677506#t3677506

my BIFF, in th span of half an hour, this a.m. This sounds like a joke, but it led to a

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p.s. I just remembered who you are marrying

[maria_sputnik]

my brains're too addled to give this entry the parsing it deserves, but it seems to me that your self-reporting is consistent: you tell Thor that when arguing with a lady, you are more adamant in asserting that your opinion is DIFFERENT than HERS: later when talking to Vida you say that if she were a dude, you would just call her a faggot and drop the argument there.

Looking for a small altercation we had once I found this:
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(4:28:22 AM): if you were more like me, I could weasel you into taking vitamins, for instance
(4:28:51 AM): you strike me as neither convinceable nor coerceable
(4:29:10 AM): if we have different directional conversational ideas, you will win every time
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I think also that your idea that you might be a misogynist, and that this is expressed in the way you fight with ladies, doesn't have much to do with Vida's idea, which is that we are all misogynistic because we were socialized inside a misogynistic culture. You want to explore the psychological elements of fighting and ladies: V. wants to untie universalized brainwashing -- not two totally separate endeavors, but definitely distinct.