Moving On by Staying Where I Am

Mar 19, 2008 10:51


One of my fellow thirty-something lady friends suggests that I not get caught up in what we like to call The Baby Race.  And my former partner suggested that I might try to find someone who's ready for a family NOW, as opposed to her.  I let go in my own way.  Usually by obsessing until I'm exhausted, obsessing some more, and then finally moving on to something that actually deserves my attention.  Like having a life.

So, focusing on the good stuff, the things I want to feed and nurture and see come to fruition-- some of those things are these:
  1. planning travels to sobriety conferences, professional conferences, and general wellness fun
  2. playing my cello with others, making music, singing and composing
  3. investing in my own career development
  4. giving myself permission and accepting invitations to write, write, write as part of my spiritual path
  5. feelgood nutrition from wholesome, natural foods
  6. reconnecting to old friends in an honest and open exchange
  7. visualizing being so thrilled by my next vehicle purchase
  8. utilizing a functional, enjoyable system of time management to make progress on my projects (Thanks, Dave Allen)
  9. homemade love cards to loved ones
  10. expanding my conscious awareness, remembering how to be in reality
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