LDR
I believe that "love" is a confusing, bodily reaction towards someone. for some, it is predominantly lust. others seek intellect. most of us are looking for our best friend.
So what if we find that someone, but we are far from them. As in, living in two different states, more than a 40 minute drive away; even that's pretty far, you have to admit. Do we just hope the feelings will go away, or do we speak up? Say these feelings have come and gone over 2 years, and that you've nearly made the move to "exclusively dating" once before, and he did make the move once before, but was rejected by you... for good reason, you think!
Feelings for someone who lives in Jersey have resurfaced. It's probably just because I'm not talking to anyone, especially no one close in proximity, so I'm just latching on to the attention he gives me. Yet, there is that past.
I'm not sure what he wants right now, but I do know that I want to tell him how I feel. The holidays are nearly over. Nearly! There is still my birthday and Valentine's Day, after which, it's free game to seek someone out. This might sound odd to you, but it makes perfect sense to me. Does anyone remember my Valentine's date last year? That led to a messed up next 3 months.
So I could break my rule and bring this up to said current "crush," I could just be his friend when I see him this weekend, or I could be the girl I have been and just kiss him when I see him.
A serious, committed relationship can't start with hook-ups! Right???
But Monica and Chandler's did!
But that's fiction... :/ conundrum.
So what if we find that someone, but we are far from them. As in, living in two different states, more than a 40 minute drive away; even that's pretty far, you have to admit. Do we just hope the feelings will go away, or do we speak up? Say these feelings have come and gone over 2 years, and that you've nearly made the move to "exclusively dating" once before, and he did make the move once before, but was rejected by you... for good reason, you think!
Feelings for someone who lives in Jersey have resurfaced. It's probably just because I'm not talking to anyone, especially no one close in proximity, so I'm just latching on to the attention he gives me. Yet, there is that past.
I'm not sure what he wants right now, but I do know that I want to tell him how I feel. The holidays are nearly over. Nearly! There is still my birthday and Valentine's Day, after which, it's free game to seek someone out. This might sound odd to you, but it makes perfect sense to me. Does anyone remember my Valentine's date last year? That led to a messed up next 3 months.
So I could break my rule and bring this up to said current "crush," I could just be his friend when I see him this weekend, or I could be the girl I have been and just kiss him when I see him.
A serious, committed relationship can't start with hook-ups! Right???
But Monica and Chandler's did!
But that's fiction... :/ conundrum.