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So,
After talking with some people and some soul searching, figured out that most of my problems steam from my job. Working odd hours, not getting paid enough, no benefits (the cause of my upcomming surgury bill). So, the only reasonable solution i can see is to quit working for the bro in law and get another job.
This is the plan, Tell him after he get's settled in with his new baby that he needs to hire someone else by the end of the year, and i'll help train him so he can have an able body and i can leave with a clear consious, and have enough saved up so i can transition to another job.
Now, I had a conversation with somone who i thought cared for me, but ended up yelling at me, and telling me how easy these solutions are. "get a job, it's not that difficult ect". working with family and such tends to lend more difficulity to the situation. A new nephew ends more comlications. He got so frustrated that he abrutly ended the conversation, and went to lie down, apprently i'm that annoyingly depressed or emo that it lead him to that.
Sorry if that's the way i come off lately, but things are a bit rough never had to deal with stuff like this, and it's very scary and a bit overwhelming for me to be behind on bills, and have more pilling up on top of them, and not gettin paid enough to deal with them. Not having family that can help me out becuase they eather lost there house, or are having babies.
It helps me to just talk to people about them and have people listen, auctually listen and not expect to get a lecture, or an "i told you so" out of them. Just have them hear me out and maby empthise with me a bit. So unless this all happened to you, you dun know what i'm going through and can't offer the best advice. Sorry, the yelling at / getting frustrated with kinda drew me away tonight
I'm sorry and don't mean to be a typical "oh i'm having problems, pity me" fur, (i don't want pity, just a friendly sholder to lean and maby cry a bit on (oh and i have done a bit of cryin the past week) but at least it's not your typical "my parents hate me cause i'm gay" furry drama.
if you've read this far you know there is no porn in this.
After talking with some people and some soul searching, figured out that most of my problems steam from my job. Working odd hours, not getting paid enough, no benefits (the cause of my upcomming surgury bill). So, the only reasonable solution i can see is to quit working for the bro in law and get another job.
This is the plan, Tell him after he get's settled in with his new baby that he needs to hire someone else by the end of the year, and i'll help train him so he can have an able body and i can leave with a clear consious, and have enough saved up so i can transition to another job.
Now, I had a conversation with somone who i thought cared for me, but ended up yelling at me, and telling me how easy these solutions are. "get a job, it's not that difficult ect". working with family and such tends to lend more difficulity to the situation. A new nephew ends more comlications. He got so frustrated that he abrutly ended the conversation, and went to lie down, apprently i'm that annoyingly depressed or emo that it lead him to that.
Sorry if that's the way i come off lately, but things are a bit rough never had to deal with stuff like this, and it's very scary and a bit overwhelming for me to be behind on bills, and have more pilling up on top of them, and not gettin paid enough to deal with them. Not having family that can help me out becuase they eather lost there house, or are having babies.
It helps me to just talk to people about them and have people listen, auctually listen and not expect to get a lecture, or an "i told you so" out of them. Just have them hear me out and maby empthise with me a bit. So unless this all happened to you, you dun know what i'm going through and can't offer the best advice. Sorry, the yelling at / getting frustrated with kinda drew me away tonight
I'm sorry and don't mean to be a typical "oh i'm having problems, pity me" fur, (i don't want pity, just a friendly sholder to lean and maby cry a bit on (oh and i have done a bit of cryin the past week) but at least it's not your typical "my parents hate me cause i'm gay" furry drama.
if you've read this far you know there is no porn in this.