Listen to LA josh
a repost of a comment some of you may have missed:
"Anyone that has not been through extensive therapy please raise your hand.
Jesus, this thread reads like the minutes of a support group meeting for codependants. Ladies, Mars needs women, so if you know any, introduce him. That's it. I think that's all he's asking for, not a lengthy psychoanalytical tirade about what he should and shouldn't be doing.
Rubin does us all the favor of being supernaturally blunt with us, we can return the favor. If you don't want to introduce him to your female friends, then just say so. He's not looking for an escort service, nor is he looking for his grandmother to set him up with a nice jewish girl from the congregation. He just wants to meet girls, and you can either facilitate that or ignore it, but don't try to tell him why he doesn't want that."
and read his livejournal
http://www.livejournal.com/users/joshskye/
"Anyone that has not been through extensive therapy please raise your hand.
Jesus, this thread reads like the minutes of a support group meeting for codependants. Ladies, Mars needs women, so if you know any, introduce him. That's it. I think that's all he's asking for, not a lengthy psychoanalytical tirade about what he should and shouldn't be doing.
Rubin does us all the favor of being supernaturally blunt with us, we can return the favor. If you don't want to introduce him to your female friends, then just say so. He's not looking for an escort service, nor is he looking for his grandmother to set him up with a nice jewish girl from the congregation. He just wants to meet girls, and you can either facilitate that or ignore it, but don't try to tell him why he doesn't want that."
and read his livejournal
http://www.livejournal.com/users/joshskye/