I agree, I believe that Jordan's mom could do a better parenting job. She is excesive in almost all of the things that she does, and when she isn't excessive, she lacking. She has not treated Jordan fairly. And if she is allowing Jordan to read only the entries about after she broke up with you, then she is simply being manipulative. IT IS UNFAIR TO JORDAN ADN ALL OF HER FRIENDS THAT HER MOM TREATS HER THE WAY SHE DOES. Jordan is not a child. Her mom shouldn't try to manage Jordan's friendships and relationships. That should be up to Jordan. I care for Jordan very much, and I hate to see her controlled by someone who obviously can't control their own life, and therefore taking over her daughter's. And is really isn't fair to you, Josh, for Jordan's mom to say that the relationship was only about sex. I could tell that you loved her, just by the way you acted when you were with her. And by the way you've always waited for her to come back to you. I am really sorry that all of this has happened.
And if Jordan's mom is reading this, I hope that you seriously reconsider how you are parenting your daughter, do you really think that taking control of her life because she's fucked up like every other teenager has is really helping her become an adult and go out into the real world? Do you think that if you protect her from all that you deem bad for her will allow her to do this when she is grown up and out on her own? Do you think she will say, "Gee, thanks mom for making me lose all of my friends and keeping me from someone who was quite possibly the love of my life," 10 or 20 years down the road? You really need to allow her to get out in the real world, not the one you have built for her, and make decisions, and learn what is right, and wrong. If you really love your daughter, you would handle things in the best way possible, one that would still allow her to grow as a person. You are only hindering her.
And if Jordan's mom is reading this, I hope that you seriously reconsider how you are parenting your daughter, do you really think that taking control of her life because she's fucked up like every other teenager has is really helping her become an adult and go out into the real world? Do you think that if you protect her from all that you deem bad for her will allow her to do this when she is grown up and out on her own? Do you think she will say, "Gee, thanks mom for making me lose all of my friends and keeping me from someone who was quite possibly the love of my life," 10 or 20 years down the road? You really need to allow her to get out in the real world, not the one you have built for her, and make decisions, and learn what is right, and wrong. If you really love your daughter, you would handle things in the best way possible, one that would still allow her to grow as a person. You are only hindering her.
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