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[jori]

Nothing new really. Starting school tomorrow and a new job. Yipee. Feel a little left out lately. Was supposed to be part of something important to me and super important to some people who i love..and i wasn't. it made me sad. I know we don't see each other as often anymore but i don't feel that should matter. You don't call someone a "best

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[littlebit7888]

I know that I probably shouldn't be posting this, because it wasn't directed to me...but when I know that one of my best friends is upset, I find it hard not to put in my opinion.

I don't think that posting in your livejournal everytime you are feeling lonely is the best way to resolve things between you and Manda if thats what you want and if it's what she wants. I know you say confrontation is hard, and yes it is, but it's a part of growing up. You say you call Manda as much as you can and stop by her place and much as you can. But think about it.....

When is the last time you hung out with Manda to be with her? When is the last time you tried hanging out with her without getting your hair done or Jon's hair done? And on top of it, it's her job...the way she is making income and you don't pay her...Or if you do, you pay her with alcohol. Claiming to be her best friend, you would never do that because she drinks on very rare ocassions.

I'm not trying to make you feel any worse about yourself or to start a fight with you, but as a bystander...I feel you need to look at yourself and your actions and see how that led your guys relationship to drift, because right now it seems like you feel it's 100% Manda's fault and I don't think that's right.

[jori]

as i said in my comment...it's both our faults. i know that and i hope that manda realizes that as well. I know that maybe i haven't had as much time this summer as i would like to hang out with people. And i know that i do ask for favors from her. But i have tried calling her and have not gotten an answer. There are many times that jon and i just want to hang out with brian and manda but we call/beep and no one answers so it doesn't happen. at that point, i feel it is their turn to contact us. The alcohol for a haircut was jon's idea. We both thought it would be a good payment. if manda wants money...ask for it! she never has asked! i take it as a favor that she cuts our hairs. I dont think it's all manda's fault and i said that earlier. I also feel that my lj is MINE so if this is the place i need to vent, then i'm gonna do it. I suck at confrontation and i always will so writing is my outlet.